You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I did succeed at private house parties,yes, but usually I would go to bars or clubs that were throwing big events. Quality of the former was better they were women I knew or a friend of a friend. The latter never really went anywhere, not that it matters if just trying to get laid. Visibility is most important thing, have to go where the women are.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
This year, one of my married friends in the suburbs is having a house party. I am invited but concerned about going. I am concerned that it will be all established couples. I don't want to be in that environment. It is the only private residence party I am invited to this year.
I've had a couple of quite unpleasant New Year's Eve nights/early New Year's Day mornings. I think there are some amount of early morning breakups on New Year's Day due to New Year's Eve night dramas.
Bait's the same, just fishing in a different pond...Uh, when a man puts on a costume for a "sexual/rugged" vibe, he looks like this:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The night before Thanksgiving is next week.
We're now in the dreaded November 15-January 1 period where finding new dates gets more difficult.The holiday season is all about women and beta males. November 15-January 1 (day) is all about women, children, and betas in relationships and/or betas with families. Single, unattached men do not benefit at all during this 6 week period. Additionally, it becomes more difficult to find dates during this time, especially with swipe apps. Cold approaching is also less fruitful during this time. Before the pandemic, holiday private residence parties were worthwhile for social circle date finding. Much of that scene has been reduced the last 2 years.
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I did not know this, thanks for highlightingThe night before Thanksgiving is next week.
We're now in the dreaded November 15-January 1 period where finding new dates gets more difficult.
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That's impressive to get laid with 2 different women on Christmas Day. I don't think a lot of men consider Christmas Day a good day for getting laid. Those were existing women who you did not pick up and have sex with for the first time on Christmas Day.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I was disappointed in the 2 years since Roosh wrote the article in 2011 that I didn't get laid when trying to get laid on what was hyped at one time as the easiest day of the year to get laid.
Yes, it does help. Nightlife might be a little bit better as a result. Non-bar approaching might even be worthwhile for some.
What do you think is a crappy place? Too small of a population? Larger metro area but too many SJWs/feminists/careerists?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
A crappy place is any place where there are more men than women not only for the ratio itself but for the vicious cycles it starts.
In my experience, even other non-NYC East Coast cities are markedly better than DC. Place is a hellhole. Not difficult to get laid, per se, but everything is mercurial and the women are just awful inside and out.
There can be crappy places in decent metro areas and good places within crappy metro areas.
All true.
DC is the worst of the Northeast/Mid-Atlantic. You're right that NYC isn't great too. Before the mid-2010s, it was a decent East Coast alternative to DC. However, reports from NYC are showing that NYC has gotten very woke and it's sexual marketplace has gone way downhill compared to 10-15 years ago. Northern New Jersey is spotty and a different environment from NYC. New Jersey hasn't gotten a lot of great reviews. New Jersey has the Jersey Shore scene in the summer months but Northern NJ is a little far from that. It's also far enough to make dating NYC women a challenge.
Like any city, I am sure that Philly would have some good spots to show up to tonight to get laid on January 1. If a woman is going out tonight on January 1, she didn't have a solid NYE hookup and is unattached. NYE is couples night and amateur night. New Years Day at night is supposed to be a more motivated and unattached audience. That wasn't my experience when I tried it. Despite Roosh's article hyping it in 2011, my experiences with the night were that it was a dud.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
