Myrrdin
Don Juan
So is it gay to sing the songs that are being played in clubs? You know you're dancing and singing the song that's being played.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Is singing in clubs gay?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
hell no it isnt
some jams i go to everyone sings along.
like that snoop dog tune "aint no fun"
when the dj plays this tune everyone sings
I dont give a crap waht other people think, im there to have a good time, have a few drinks, dance and sometimes i sing to the tune thats being played.
dont be self conscious
SING YOUR HEART OUT!
some jams i go to everyone sings along.
like that snoop dog tune "aint no fun"
when the dj plays this tune everyone sings
I dont give a crap waht other people think, im there to have a good time, have a few drinks, dance and sometimes i sing to the tune thats being played.
dont be self conscious
SING YOUR HEART OUT!
Myrrdin
Don Juan
You might think you have power. The fact is I like doing it and will keep on doing it because I get good results. But I've seen on other PUA-ish forums that it's not cool. Just wanted to see what you guys think.Warrior74 said:
Singing is ok, but only if people like you to sing because they enjoy your music, not because you sing so bad that everybody is laughing behind your back. Also, singing like Rick Astley is gay, singing like Rammstein is pretty cool.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Can you imagine Maximus the Gladiator singing along on a dance party?
More likely shouting on Heavy Metal concert.
I think you are OK. Just don't start to cry when the song is sad.
More likely shouting on Heavy Metal concert.
I think you are OK. Just don't start to cry when the song is sad.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Nexus Polaris
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Warrior beat me to it. The only thing that's gay is worrying about whether or not people think it's gay. If you enjoy it, do it. Screw everyone else.
5string
Master Don Juan
Yes, if it's a gay club. Otherwise no.
HeyPachuco!
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Only if you do this with it, will you encourage me to buy you a drink in a club.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cDGMW53scZ8
Spark notes: No it's not gay. Unless you're stifled and conciously doing it. Singing out of tone, makes girls laugh = fun guy, not gay guy.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cDGMW53scZ8
Spark notes: No it's not gay. Unless you're stifled and conciously doing it. Singing out of tone, makes girls laugh = fun guy, not gay guy.
Some of the things asked on this forum completely bewilder me. Do what makes you happy and stop caring what others think. Obviously singing in a club is a sure sign you're homosexual and obviously no girls will come within 15 feet of you.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
kingsam
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only if your playing grab ass whilst doing it
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If you feel manly by singing in clubs and are pretty good at, then sing till your heart content! Just do you and don't do any gay movements! That's all there is to it. Oh, and show courage and confidence while you're at it, and don't let someone else's judgement of you be your reality.
Case closed. Try Karaoke Nights too!
Case closed. Try Karaoke Nights too!