Myrrdin
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So is it gay to sing the songs that are being played in clubs? You know you're dancing and singing the song that's being played.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Is singing in clubs gay?
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
hell no it isnt
some jams i go to everyone sings along.
like that snoop dog tune "aint no fun"
when the dj plays this tune everyone sings
I dont give a crap waht other people think, im there to have a good time, have a few drinks, dance and sometimes i sing to the tune thats being played.
dont be self conscious
SING YOUR HEART OUT!
some jams i go to everyone sings along.
like that snoop dog tune "aint no fun"
when the dj plays this tune everyone sings
I dont give a crap waht other people think, im there to have a good time, have a few drinks, dance and sometimes i sing to the tune thats being played.
dont be self conscious
SING YOUR HEART OUT!
Myrrdin
Don Juan
You might think you have power. The fact is I like doing it and will keep on doing it because I get good results. But I've seen on other PUA-ish forums that it's not cool. Just wanted to see what you guys think.Warrior74 said:
Singing is ok, but only if people like you to sing because they enjoy your music, not because you sing so bad that everybody is laughing behind your back. Also, singing like Rick Astley is gay, singing like Rammstein is pretty cool.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Can you imagine Maximus the Gladiator singing along on a dance party?
More likely shouting on Heavy Metal concert.
I think you are OK. Just don't start to cry when the song is sad.
More likely shouting on Heavy Metal concert.
I think you are OK. Just don't start to cry when the song is sad.
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Warrior beat me to it. The only thing that's gay is worrying about whether or not people think it's gay. If you enjoy it, do it. Screw everyone else.
5string
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Yes, if it's a gay club. Otherwise no.
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Only if you do this with it, will you encourage me to buy you a drink in a club.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cDGMW53scZ8
Spark notes: No it's not gay. Unless you're stifled and conciously doing it. Singing out of tone, makes girls laugh = fun guy, not gay guy.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cDGMW53scZ8
Spark notes: No it's not gay. Unless you're stifled and conciously doing it. Singing out of tone, makes girls laugh = fun guy, not gay guy.
Some of the things asked on this forum completely bewilder me. Do what makes you happy and stop caring what others think. Obviously singing in a club is a sure sign you're homosexual and obviously no girls will come within 15 feet of you.
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only if your playing grab ass whilst doing it
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If you feel manly by singing in clubs and are pretty good at, then sing till your heart content! Just do you and don't do any gay movements! That's all there is to it. Oh, and show courage and confidence while you're at it, and don't let someone else's judgement of you be your reality.
Case closed. Try Karaoke Nights too!
Case closed. Try Karaoke Nights too!