"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is singing in clubs gay?

Myrrdin

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So is it gay to sing the songs that are being played in clubs? You know you're dancing and singing the song that's being played.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If I say it is, will you stop doing it? If I say it isn't will you keep/start doing it? I would enjoy having that much power over you with my opinions.
 

PokerStar

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hell no it isnt
some jams i go to everyone sings along.
like that snoop dog tune "aint no fun"

when the dj plays this tune everyone sings

I dont give a crap waht other people think, im there to have a good time, have a few drinks, dance and sometimes i sing to the tune thats being played.
dont be self conscious
SING YOUR HEART OUT!
 

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Warrior74 said:
If I say it is, will you stop doing it? If I say it isn't will you keep/start doing it? I would enjoy having that much power over you with my opinions.
You might think you have power. The fact is I like doing it and will keep on doing it because I get good results. But I've seen on other PUA-ish forums that it's not cool. Just wanted to see what you guys think.
 

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Singing is ok, but only if people like you to sing because they enjoy your music, not because you sing so bad that everybody is laughing behind your back. Also, singing like Rick Astley is gay, singing like Rammstein is pretty cool.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Warrior74

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Myrrdin said:
The fact is I like doing it and will keep on doing it because I get good results.
And that is my point. You do what you like, that's what's really cool. Who cares what others think. You see what I did there? No? Doesn't matter, we got to the heart of the issue. Good post.
 

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If you like singing sing...That's what being a Don Juan is all about. Who really cares if somebody thinks you are gay anyway...because you know you're not and that's all that really matters.
 

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Can you imagine Maximus the Gladiator singing along on a dance party?

More likely shouting on Heavy Metal concert.

I think you are OK. Just don't start to cry when the song is sad.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DanelMadr

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RedZone said:
If you like singing sing...That's what being a Don Juan is all about. Who really cares if somebody thinks you are gay anyway...because you know you're not and that's all that really matters.
If he is singing he has to be at least bi curious.
 

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Warrior beat me to it. The only thing that's gay is worrying about whether or not people think it's gay. If you enjoy it, do it. Screw everyone else.
 

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Some of the things asked on this forum completely bewilder me. Do what makes you happy and stop caring what others think. Obviously singing in a club is a sure sign you're homosexual and obviously no girls will come within 15 feet of you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you feel manly by singing in clubs and are pretty good at, then sing till your heart content! Just do you and don't do any gay movements! That's all there is to it. Oh, and show courage and confidence while you're at it, and don't let someone else's judgement of you be your reality.

Case closed. Try Karaoke Nights too!
 
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