Myrrdin
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So is it gay to sing the songs that are being played in clubs? You know you're dancing and singing the song that's being played.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Is singing in clubs gay?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
hell no it isnt
some jams i go to everyone sings along.
like that snoop dog tune "aint no fun"
when the dj plays this tune everyone sings
I dont give a crap waht other people think, im there to have a good time, have a few drinks, dance and sometimes i sing to the tune thats being played.
dont be self conscious
SING YOUR HEART OUT!
some jams i go to everyone sings along.
like that snoop dog tune "aint no fun"
when the dj plays this tune everyone sings
I dont give a crap waht other people think, im there to have a good time, have a few drinks, dance and sometimes i sing to the tune thats being played.
dont be self conscious
SING YOUR HEART OUT!
Myrrdin
Don Juan
You might think you have power. The fact is I like doing it and will keep on doing it because I get good results. But I've seen on other PUA-ish forums that it's not cool. Just wanted to see what you guys think.Warrior74 said:
Singing is ok, but only if people like you to sing because they enjoy your music, not because you sing so bad that everybody is laughing behind your back. Also, singing like Rick Astley is gay, singing like Rammstein is pretty cool.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Can you imagine Maximus the Gladiator singing along on a dance party?
More likely shouting on Heavy Metal concert.
I think you are OK. Just don't start to cry when the song is sad.
More likely shouting on Heavy Metal concert.
I think you are OK. Just don't start to cry when the song is sad.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Nexus Polaris
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Warrior beat me to it. The only thing that's gay is worrying about whether or not people think it's gay. If you enjoy it, do it. Screw everyone else.
5string
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Yes, if it's a gay club. Otherwise no.
HeyPachuco!
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Only if you do this with it, will you encourage me to buy you a drink in a club.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cDGMW53scZ8
Spark notes: No it's not gay. Unless you're stifled and conciously doing it. Singing out of tone, makes girls laugh = fun guy, not gay guy.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cDGMW53scZ8
Spark notes: No it's not gay. Unless you're stifled and conciously doing it. Singing out of tone, makes girls laugh = fun guy, not gay guy.
Some of the things asked on this forum completely bewilder me. Do what makes you happy and stop caring what others think. Obviously singing in a club is a sure sign you're homosexual and obviously no girls will come within 15 feet of you.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
kingsam
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only if your playing grab ass whilst doing it
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If you feel manly by singing in clubs and are pretty good at, then sing till your heart content! Just do you and don't do any gay movements! That's all there is to it. Oh, and show courage and confidence while you're at it, and don't let someone else's judgement of you be your reality.
Case closed. Try Karaoke Nights too!
Case closed. Try Karaoke Nights too!