She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
No, it's the instagram for careers, but somehow even more fake and insincere. It's a joke platform that only benefits employers.I was looking at this, and it got me interested:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I don't think it helps with anything. It seems to be a place where people just post garbage hanging on their office walls and pat each other on the back for a life spent in a cubicle.
Plenty of men try to get dates/sex on LinkedIn. I've posted about this occurrence a number of times.I guess I should also ask if LinkedIn could be used for macking.![]()
Agree that it is more like Facebook or Instagram. The best performing LinkedIn posts are generally more personal in nature than business in nature.No, it's the instagram for careers, but somehow even more fake and insincere.
My ex was in the tech sector and got jobs this way. It worked exactly as you described for her. A must have in her situation. She also had lots of guys hit on her thru it.In the tech industry and some other fields, the platform serves as a tool for job hunting. However, I don't find it particularly effective for networking. Sales teams in enterprise software often use it to target key decision-makers, which can be intrusive.
If you're aiming to get your resume directly to a decision-maker within a specific company, having a large network can sometimes enable someone to personally deliver it for you.
In the tech sector, it's commonly used to identify potential candidates for technical roles.
In my opinion, for most other industries, the platform doesn't offer much utility.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.