“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Is LinkedIn simply Tinder for careers?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Pierce Manhammer
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FlexpertHamilton
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No, it's the instagram for careers, but somehow even more fake and insincere. It's a joke platform that only benefits employers.
Pierce Manhammer
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If you're aiming to get your resume directly to a decision-maker within a specific company, having a large network can sometimes enable someone to personally deliver it for you.
In the tech sector, it's commonly used to identify potential candidates for technical roles.
In my opinion, for most other industries, the platform doesn't offer much utility.
BoomToTheMoonAlice
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Plenty of men try to get dates/sex on LinkedIn. I've posted about this occurrence a number of times.I guess I should also ask if LinkedIn could be used for macking.
It doesn't work well for seduction.
Agree that it is more like Facebook or Instagram. The best performing LinkedIn posts are generally more personal in nature than business in nature.
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My ex was in the tech sector and got jobs this way. It worked exactly as you described for her. A must have in her situation. She also had lots of guys hit on her thru it.
I had it during my engineering career and it was pretty much worthless.
Even more worthless for what I do now. So much I deleted it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Pierce Manhammer
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Granted I’m in a different generation where social just doesn’t hold much water for me. I do like that blogs and forums like this one seem to be resurgent recently, meaning BBS style instead of what passes for content these days…
Substack for example…