"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is LinkedIn simply Tinder for careers?

MatureDJ

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I was looking at this, and it got me interested:

 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I was looking at this, and it got me interested:

No, it's the instagram for careers, but somehow even more fake and insincere. It's a joke platform that only benefits employers.
 

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In the tech industry and some other fields, the platform serves as a tool for job hunting. However, I don't find it particularly effective for networking. Sales teams in enterprise software often use it to target key decision-makers, which can be intrusive.

If you're aiming to get your resume directly to a decision-maker within a specific company, having a large network can sometimes enable someone to personally deliver it for you.

In the tech sector, it's commonly used to identify potential candidates for technical roles.

In my opinion, for most other industries, the platform doesn't offer much utility.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well you probably care about the social media component of it. It’s usefulness at least to me has nothing to do with that, it’s a job finding and emplyeee finding tool. Most people post the contents of their resumes to their profiles.

I don't think it helps with anything. It seems to be a place where people just post garbage hanging on their office walls and pat each other on the back for a life spent in a cubicle.
 

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I guess I should also ask if LinkedIn could be used for macking. :eek:
 

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I guess I should also ask if LinkedIn could be used for macking. :eek:
Plenty of men try to get dates/sex on LinkedIn. I've posted about this occurrence a number of times.

It doesn't work well for seduction.

No, it's the instagram for careers, but somehow even more fake and insincere.
Agree that it is more like Facebook or Instagram. The best performing LinkedIn posts are generally more personal in nature than business in nature.
 

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In the tech industry and some other fields, the platform serves as a tool for job hunting. However, I don't find it particularly effective for networking. Sales teams in enterprise software often use it to target key decision-makers, which can be intrusive.

If you're aiming to get your resume directly to a decision-maker within a specific company, having a large network can sometimes enable someone to personally deliver it for you.

In the tech sector, it's commonly used to identify potential candidates for technical roles.

In my opinion, for most other industries, the platform doesn't offer much utility.
My ex was in the tech sector and got jobs this way. It worked exactly as you described for her. A must have in her situation. She also had lots of guys hit on her thru it.

I had it during my engineering career and it was pretty much worthless.

Even more worthless for what I do now. So much I deleted it.
 

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I really dislike LinkedIn. I get that it's a way to simply connect for resumes and what not, especially in certain industries like tech. Otherwise though, it's 100% a platform of woke/progressive bs. All the content posted is just more of what infests society and the corporate world these days.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yup, I’ve been using it for going on like 20 years, well before it tried to become social media. It’s a job finding and candidate finding tool, I consume ZERO of the social stuff and never have.

Granted I’m in a different generation where social just doesn’t hold much water for me. I do like that blogs and forums like this one seem to be resurgent recently, meaning BBS style instead of what passes for content these days…

Substack for example…
 
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