Hi there! iam curious on my girl, whos she sending sms to. if she flirts with any guy, some kind of signs if shes up to something no good. is it allright to check once in a while hers cell, to see what kind of sms shes been reciving and sending.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
is it okey to check hers cell phone`?
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
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I have to admit that ive done that stuff in the past.. but my advice is don't! Youre going to see bad things in everything she does! Ask yourself why you want to check her.. are you afraid of losing her? Then you have to boost your ego! Are you affraid she is cheating? Then find out why she would cheat.. and fix that! If you are still interesting to her then she wont have a reason to...
oakraiderz2
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No, dont care. Get your own life.
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I agree, it is stalkerish.oakraiderz2 said:
Manolo
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This shows that you are insecure .. and insecurity never leads to success with women and more importantly in your LIFE.
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Bonhomme
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No.
Monkey
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Its a slippery slope that only leads to disaster
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It depends on the relationship. If you guys are just dating then no.
Instead you should be making her wander about you. Of course it's human nature to want to know (even if you're not that into her or have other options).
If you guys are in a serious relationship with future plans then you should always have the option of knowing what she's doing on her phone. Not by snooping though. She should be respectful enough to tell you or, atleast answer you if you ask.
Instead you should be making her wander about you. Of course it's human nature to want to know (even if you're not that into her or have other options).
If you guys are in a serious relationship with future plans then you should always have the option of knowing what she's doing on her phone. Not by snooping though. She should be respectful enough to tell you or, atleast answer you if you ask.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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QFTBonhomme said:
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Why are you worried?Zeus said:
RAFCbearfilm
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If you care - then you are not valuing yourself. Honestly, you need to get rid of the jealousy beast. You are the prize if she doesn't want to be with you then she loses, get it? If you need to see who she's talking or are worried that you may lose her, then she is the prize, not you.
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Aint that the truth. I've had girls check my phone, check my emails, listen to voicemail, caller id and everything else that I consider a violation of my privacy. Then they would get carried away with what they did find most of the time.TheOnE111 said:
Why are you insecure anyways? Thats something you should answer for yourself before you go through her phone.