Hi there! iam curious on my girl, whos she sending sms to. if she flirts with any guy, some kind of signs if shes up to something no good. is it allright to check once in a while hers cell, to see what kind of sms shes been reciving and sending.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
is it okey to check hers cell phone`?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I have to admit that ive done that stuff in the past.. but my advice is don't! Youre going to see bad things in everything she does! Ask yourself why you want to check her.. are you afraid of losing her? Then you have to boost your ego! Are you affraid she is cheating? Then find out why she would cheat.. and fix that! If you are still interesting to her then she wont have a reason to...
oakraiderz2
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No, dont care. Get your own life.
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I agree, it is stalkerish.oakraiderz2 said:
Manolo
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This shows that you are insecure .. and insecurity never leads to success with women and more importantly in your LIFE.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Bonhomme
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No.
Monkey
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Its a slippery slope that only leads to disaster
Teflon_Mcgee
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It depends on the relationship. If you guys are just dating then no.
Instead you should be making her wander about you. Of course it's human nature to want to know (even if you're not that into her or have other options).
If you guys are in a serious relationship with future plans then you should always have the option of knowing what she's doing on her phone. Not by snooping though. She should be respectful enough to tell you or, atleast answer you if you ask.
Instead you should be making her wander about you. Of course it's human nature to want to know (even if you're not that into her or have other options).
If you guys are in a serious relationship with future plans then you should always have the option of knowing what she's doing on her phone. Not by snooping though. She should be respectful enough to tell you or, atleast answer you if you ask.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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QFTBonhomme said:
Francisco d'Anconia
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Why are you worried?Zeus said:
RAFCbearfilm
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If you care - then you are not valuing yourself. Honestly, you need to get rid of the jealousy beast. You are the prize if she doesn't want to be with you then she loses, get it? If you need to see who she's talking or are worried that you may lose her, then she is the prize, not you.
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Aint that the truth. I've had girls check my phone, check my emails, listen to voicemail, caller id and everything else that I consider a violation of my privacy. Then they would get carried away with what they did find most of the time.TheOnE111 said:
Why are you insecure anyways? Thats something you should answer for yourself before you go through her phone.