Hi there! iam curious on my girl, whos she sending sms to. if she flirts with any guy, some kind of signs if shes up to something no good. is it allright to check once in a while hers cell, to see what kind of sms shes been reciving and sending.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
is it okey to check hers cell phone`?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I have to admit that ive done that stuff in the past.. but my advice is don't! Youre going to see bad things in everything she does! Ask yourself why you want to check her.. are you afraid of losing her? Then you have to boost your ego! Are you affraid she is cheating? Then find out why she would cheat.. and fix that! If you are still interesting to her then she wont have a reason to...
oakraiderz2
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No, dont care. Get your own life.
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I agree, it is stalkerish.oakraiderz2 said:
Manolo
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This shows that you are insecure .. and insecurity never leads to success with women and more importantly in your LIFE.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bonhomme
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No.
Monkey
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Its a slippery slope that only leads to disaster
Teflon_Mcgee
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It depends on the relationship. If you guys are just dating then no.
Instead you should be making her wander about you. Of course it's human nature to want to know (even if you're not that into her or have other options).
If you guys are in a serious relationship with future plans then you should always have the option of knowing what she's doing on her phone. Not by snooping though. She should be respectful enough to tell you or, atleast answer you if you ask.
Instead you should be making her wander about you. Of course it's human nature to want to know (even if you're not that into her or have other options).
If you guys are in a serious relationship with future plans then you should always have the option of knowing what she's doing on her phone. Not by snooping though. She should be respectful enough to tell you or, atleast answer you if you ask.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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QFTBonhomme said:
Francisco d'Anconia
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Why are you worried?Zeus said:
RAFCbearfilm
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If you care - then you are not valuing yourself. Honestly, you need to get rid of the jealousy beast. You are the prize if she doesn't want to be with you then she loses, get it? If you need to see who she's talking or are worried that you may lose her, then she is the prize, not you.
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Aint that the truth. I've had girls check my phone, check my emails, listen to voicemail, caller id and everything else that I consider a violation of my privacy. Then they would get carried away with what they did find most of the time.TheOnE111 said:
Why are you insecure anyways? Thats something you should answer for yourself before you go through her phone.