Hi there! iam curious on my girl, whos she sending sms to. if she flirts with any guy, some kind of signs if shes up to something no good. is it allright to check once in a while hers cell, to see what kind of sms shes been reciving and sending.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
is it okey to check hers cell phone`?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I have to admit that ive done that stuff in the past.. but my advice is don't! Youre going to see bad things in everything she does! Ask yourself why you want to check her.. are you afraid of losing her? Then you have to boost your ego! Are you affraid she is cheating? Then find out why she would cheat.. and fix that! If you are still interesting to her then she wont have a reason to...
oakraiderz2
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No, dont care. Get your own life.
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I agree, it is stalkerish.oakraiderz2 said:
Manolo
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This shows that you are insecure .. and insecurity never leads to success with women and more importantly in your LIFE.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Bonhomme
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No.
Monkey
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Its a slippery slope that only leads to disaster
Teflon_Mcgee
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It depends on the relationship. If you guys are just dating then no.
Instead you should be making her wander about you. Of course it's human nature to want to know (even if you're not that into her or have other options).
If you guys are in a serious relationship with future plans then you should always have the option of knowing what she's doing on her phone. Not by snooping though. She should be respectful enough to tell you or, atleast answer you if you ask.
Instead you should be making her wander about you. Of course it's human nature to want to know (even if you're not that into her or have other options).
If you guys are in a serious relationship with future plans then you should always have the option of knowing what she's doing on her phone. Not by snooping though. She should be respectful enough to tell you or, atleast answer you if you ask.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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QFTBonhomme said:
Francisco d'Anconia
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Why are you worried?Zeus said:
RAFCbearfilm
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If you care - then you are not valuing yourself. Honestly, you need to get rid of the jealousy beast. You are the prize if she doesn't want to be with you then she loses, get it? If you need to see who she's talking or are worried that you may lose her, then she is the prize, not you.
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Aint that the truth. I've had girls check my phone, check my emails, listen to voicemail, caller id and everything else that I consider a violation of my privacy. Then they would get carried away with what they did find most of the time.TheOnE111 said:
Why are you insecure anyways? Thats something you should answer for yourself before you go through her phone.