"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is a ******* from a hot girl worth $200 ?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If the average date in the US costs $167 ($220 in Toyko) then YES.

That said, am I the only one who thinks blow jobs are ultra boring? I seriously beg women NOT to. Some insist but it never did anything for me. Except one time in 1993 when the Red Sox lost and my then gf had promised in advance to blow me if they lost so I wouldn't act depressed after.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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El Payaso

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If the average date in the US costs $167 ($220 in Toyko) then YES.

That said, am I the only one who thinks blow jobs are ultra boring? I seriously beg women NOT to. Some insist but it never did anything for me. Except one time in 1993 when the Red Sox lost and my then gf had promised in advance to blow me if they lost so I wouldn't act depressed after.
That makes no sense at all. If *******s are boring to you then it would only make you more depressed.
 

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If the average date in the US costs $167 ($220 in Toyko) then YES.

That said, am I the only one who thinks blow jobs are ultra boring? I seriously beg women NOT to. Some insist but it never did anything for me. Except one time in 1993 when the Red Sox lost and my then gf had promised in advance to blow me if they lost so I wouldn't act depressed after.
I'm right there with ya. BJs have never been my thing either. My ex wife was the only one who I ever gave gold stars to in that category. We haven't been together since 04.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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marmel75

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I think $100 or close should be the upper limit.
I would bring $20...fvck that, I'm not paying $100, $150, $167 for a chick I don't even know.

What you spend on a date has literally ZERO effect on your chance of getting laid unless she views you as a cheapskate but typically that isn't gonna happen if you are just meeting for a drink...

There must be a lot of desperate dudes out there to spend $167 ON AVERAGE for a date...I'm spending $20, which means some else is spending $330...I like my odds of getting laid better than most of the dudes spending that kind of money.
 

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I would bring $20...fvck that, I'm not paying $100, $150, $167 for a chick I don't even know.

What you spend on a date has literally ZERO effect on your chance of getting laid unless she views you as a cheapskate but typically that isn't gonna happen if you are just meeting for a drink...

There must be a lot of desperate dudes out there to spend $167 ON AVERAGE for a date...I'm spending $20, which means some else is spending $330...I like my odds of getting laid better than most of the dudes spending that kind of money.
No, dude asked how much to spend on some head from a chick considered fine. I believe going over $100 for that is being stupid.
 

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[QUOTE="logicallefty, post: 2342313, member: 26824"My ex wife was the only one who I ever gave gold stars to in that category.[/QUOTE]

Talent is rare. My ex was great, but a b!tch about it most of the time. I do happen to know one girl now who might even be better. Not only does she have talent, she has the right attitude. She's a pleaser. People like that just get off on making the other person happy. I don't even fvck her any more; I just enjoy the amazing blowj0bs when I do see her. She's happy with that, plus I don't have to worry about where her pvssy has been.
 
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