Young Lakers
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
That makes no sense at all. If *******s are boring to you then it would only make you more depressed.If the average date in the US costs $167 ($220 in Toyko) then YES.
That said, am I the only one who thinks blow jobs are ultra boring? I seriously beg women NOT to. Some insist but it never did anything for me. Except one time in 1993 when the Red Sox lost and my then gf had promised in advance to blow me if they lost so I wouldn't act depressed after.
I'm right there with ya. BJs have never been my thing either. My ex wife was the only one who I ever gave gold stars to in that category. We haven't been together since 04.If the average date in the US costs $167 ($220 in Toyko) then YES.
That said, am I the only one who thinks blow jobs are ultra boring? I seriously beg women NOT to. Some insist but it never did anything for me. Except one time in 1993 when the Red Sox lost and my then gf had promised in advance to blow me if they lost so I wouldn't act depressed after.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I would bring $20...fvck that, I'm not paying $100, $150, $167 for a chick I don't even know.I think $100 or close should be the upper limit.
No, dude asked how much to spend on some head from a chick considered fine. I believe going over $100 for that is being stupid.I would bring $20...fvck that, I'm not paying $100, $150, $167 for a chick I don't even know.
What you spend on a date has literally ZERO effect on your chance of getting laid unless she views you as a cheapskate but typically that isn't gonna happen if you are just meeting for a drink...
There must be a lot of desperate dudes out there to spend $167 ON AVERAGE for a date...I'm spending $20, which means some else is spending $330...I like my odds of getting laid better than most of the dudes spending that kind of money.