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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Is a ******* from a hot girl worth $200 ?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Young Lakers
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A "blowj*b"
Tictac
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Its a business deal.
You decide what has value to you.
You decide what has value to you.
Bible_Belt
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The market value of anything is what someone else is willing to pay.
If the average date in the US costs $167 ($220 in Toyko) then YES.
That said, am I the only one who thinks blow jobs are ultra boring? I seriously beg women NOT to. Some insist but it never did anything for me. Except one time in 1993 when the Red Sox lost and my then gf had promised in advance to blow me if they lost so I wouldn't act depressed after.
That said, am I the only one who thinks blow jobs are ultra boring? I seriously beg women NOT to. Some insist but it never did anything for me. Except one time in 1993 when the Red Sox lost and my then gf had promised in advance to blow me if they lost so I wouldn't act depressed after.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
El Payaso
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That makes no sense at all. If *******s are boring to you then it would only make you more depressed.
mrgoodstuff
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I think $100 or close should be the upper limit.
logicallefty
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I'm right there with ya. BJs have never been my thing either. My ex wife was the only one who I ever gave gold stars to in that category. We haven't been together since 04.
SmooveMooves
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No.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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When the same chick is giving it out for free, **** no.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
marmel75
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I would bring $20...fvck that, I'm not paying $100, $150, $167 for a chick I don't even know.
What you spend on a date has literally ZERO effect on your chance of getting laid unless she views you as a cheapskate but typically that isn't gonna happen if you are just meeting for a drink...
There must be a lot of desperate dudes out there to spend $167 ON AVERAGE for a date...I'm spending $20, which means some else is spending $330...I like my odds of getting laid better than most of the dudes spending that kind of money.
mrgoodstuff
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No, dude asked how much to spend on some head from a chick considered fine. I believe going over $100 for that is being stupid.
Bible_Belt
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[QUOTE="logicallefty, post: 2342313, member: 26824"My ex wife was the only one who I ever gave gold stars to in that category.[/QUOTE]
Talent is rare. My ex was great, but a b!tch about it most of the time. I do happen to know one girl now who might even be better. Not only does she have talent, she has the right attitude. She's a pleaser. People like that just get off on making the other person happy. I don't even fvck her any more; I just enjoy the amazing blowj0bs when I do see her. She's happy with that, plus I don't have to worry about where her pvssy has been.
Talent is rare. My ex was great, but a b!tch about it most of the time. I do happen to know one girl now who might even be better. Not only does she have talent, she has the right attitude. She's a pleaser. People like that just get off on making the other person happy. I don't even fvck her any more; I just enjoy the amazing blowj0bs when I do see her. She's happy with that, plus I don't have to worry about where her pvssy has been.