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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Is a ******* from a hot girl worth $200 ?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Young Lakers
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A "blowj*b"
Tictac
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Its a business deal.
You decide what has value to you.
You decide what has value to you.
Bible_Belt
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The market value of anything is what someone else is willing to pay.
If the average date in the US costs $167 ($220 in Toyko) then YES.
That said, am I the only one who thinks blow jobs are ultra boring? I seriously beg women NOT to. Some insist but it never did anything for me. Except one time in 1993 when the Red Sox lost and my then gf had promised in advance to blow me if they lost so I wouldn't act depressed after.
That said, am I the only one who thinks blow jobs are ultra boring? I seriously beg women NOT to. Some insist but it never did anything for me. Except one time in 1993 when the Red Sox lost and my then gf had promised in advance to blow me if they lost so I wouldn't act depressed after.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
El Payaso
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That makes no sense at all. If *******s are boring to you then it would only make you more depressed.
mrgoodstuff
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I think $100 or close should be the upper limit.
logicallefty
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I'm right there with ya. BJs have never been my thing either. My ex wife was the only one who I ever gave gold stars to in that category. We haven't been together since 04.
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
No.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
When the same chick is giving it out for free, **** no.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
marmel75
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I would bring $20...fvck that, I'm not paying $100, $150, $167 for a chick I don't even know.
What you spend on a date has literally ZERO effect on your chance of getting laid unless she views you as a cheapskate but typically that isn't gonna happen if you are just meeting for a drink...
There must be a lot of desperate dudes out there to spend $167 ON AVERAGE for a date...I'm spending $20, which means some else is spending $330...I like my odds of getting laid better than most of the dudes spending that kind of money.
mrgoodstuff
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No, dude asked how much to spend on some head from a chick considered fine. I believe going over $100 for that is being stupid.
Bible_Belt
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[QUOTE="logicallefty, post: 2342313, member: 26824"My ex wife was the only one who I ever gave gold stars to in that category.[/QUOTE]
Talent is rare. My ex was great, but a b!tch about it most of the time. I do happen to know one girl now who might even be better. Not only does she have talent, she has the right attitude. She's a pleaser. People like that just get off on making the other person happy. I don't even fvck her any more; I just enjoy the amazing blowj0bs when I do see her. She's happy with that, plus I don't have to worry about where her pvssy has been.
Talent is rare. My ex was great, but a b!tch about it most of the time. I do happen to know one girl now who might even be better. Not only does she have talent, she has the right attitude. She's a pleaser. People like that just get off on making the other person happy. I don't even fvck her any more; I just enjoy the amazing blowj0bs when I do see her. She's happy with that, plus I don't have to worry about where her pvssy has been.