"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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manfromitaly

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I already know that most of you are not in favor of chats but I would like to ask you something

For a couple of years when I've been flirting with a girl I don't know on instagram and she refuses an appointment or doesn't answer me, I unfollow her,

it may seem like childish behavior but my thought is this: "I was interested in getting to know her because I find her attractive but She doesn't like me, why do I have to keep following her? Look at the bull**** she posts etc, I don't care anymore"

I'm not very active on social media, I have few posts, few followers and few people I follow And how do you behave? Do you think that unfollowing a person is an action dictated by emotions or is it like cutting ties permanently?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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manfromitaly

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Why would you keep following her if she´s not giving giving sex?
That's exactly the point,

If she doesn't want to know me why should I keep following her? what am I a fan of hers? Do I have to see what he posts and what he does during the day? I'm not interested in her and I won't be simp
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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manfromitaly

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This girl won't even know you unfollowed her. It's pointless to worry about trivial things. Spend your time learning how to accomplish something and grow your confidence.
Yes you are right but I don't do it to see her reaction, I do it for me, because I don't care to see her posts, also because many girls are very self-centered and are filled with likes by simps and I don't want to be one of them
 

bat soup

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Yes you are right but I don't do it to see her reaction, I do it for me, because I don't care to see her posts, also because many girls are very self-centered and are filled with likes by simps and I don't want to be one of them
In general it's a good idea to delete people from your life that don't appreciate you. A woman like this serves no purpose.
 
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