"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I already know that most of you are not in favor of chats but I would like to ask you something

For a couple of years when I've been flirting with a girl I don't know on instagram and she refuses an appointment or doesn't answer me, I unfollow her,

it may seem like childish behavior but my thought is this: "I was interested in getting to know her because I find her attractive but She doesn't like me, why do I have to keep following her? Look at the bull**** she posts etc, I don't care anymore"

I'm not very active on social media, I have few posts, few followers and few people I follow And how do you behave? Do you think that unfollowing a person is an action dictated by emotions or is it like cutting ties permanently?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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manfromitaly

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Dr.Suave said:
Why would you keep following her if she´s not giving giving sex?
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That's exactly the point,

If she doesn't want to know me why should I keep following her? what am I a fan of hers? Do I have to see what he posts and what he does during the day? I'm not interested in her and I won't be simp
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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manfromitaly

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The Duke said:
This girl won't even know you unfollowed her. It's pointless to worry about trivial things. Spend your time learning how to accomplish something and grow your confidence.
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Yes you are right but I don't do it to see her reaction, I do it for me, because I don't care to see her posts, also because many girls are very self-centered and are filled with likes by simps and I don't want to be one of them
 
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manfromitaly said:
Yes you are right but I don't do it to see her reaction, I do it for me, because I don't care to see her posts, also because many girls are very self-centered and are filled with likes by simps and I don't want to be one of them
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In general it's a good idea to delete people from your life that don't appreciate you. A woman like this serves no purpose.
 
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