"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I already know that most of you are not in favor of chats but I would like to ask you something

For a couple of years when I've been flirting with a girl I don't know on instagram and she refuses an appointment or doesn't answer me, I unfollow her,

it may seem like childish behavior but my thought is this: "I was interested in getting to know her because I find her attractive but She doesn't like me, why do I have to keep following her? Look at the bull**** she posts etc, I don't care anymore"

I'm not very active on social media, I have few posts, few followers and few people I follow And how do you behave? Do you think that unfollowing a person is an action dictated by emotions or is it like cutting ties permanently?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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manfromitaly

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Dr.Suave said:
Why would you keep following her if she´s not giving giving sex?
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That's exactly the point,

If she doesn't want to know me why should I keep following her? what am I a fan of hers? Do I have to see what he posts and what he does during the day? I'm not interested in her and I won't be simp
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Duke said:
This girl won't even know you unfollowed her. It's pointless to worry about trivial things. Spend your time learning how to accomplish something and grow your confidence.
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Yes you are right but I don't do it to see her reaction, I do it for me, because I don't care to see her posts, also because many girls are very self-centered and are filled with likes by simps and I don't want to be one of them
 
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manfromitaly said:
Yes you are right but I don't do it to see her reaction, I do it for me, because I don't care to see her posts, also because many girls are very self-centered and are filled with likes by simps and I don't want to be one of them
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In general it's a good idea to delete people from your life that don't appreciate you. A woman like this serves no purpose.
 
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