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You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I am at a point where I'm completely immune to any kind of criticism.TheRealSupreme said:Have you gotten to the state where you are just flowing yet? Where you talk to folks around you like it's no big deal? You see a pretty girl and you chat her up?
Why do you feel you need more info just to get a girl to talk to you? This is the one thing that mystifies me about pua's. They always think they need more info to make it work.ChrizZ said:I am at a point where I'm completely immune to any kind of criticism.
I can talk to anyone, anytime any place.
So I minimized my AA and my BL and voice tonality is good.
Now it's time to get some structure in my game.
I will seriously devote time now learning the juggler method since it is the most natural out there and it makes the most sense to me...
What's wrong with wanting hot b!tches?eatgel said:Nah what u need is a purpose, you are going after girls just because of their " FLESH " i dont know if that is real or not but to me that seems 2 be the reason.. I found out that in life we are brainwashed and forgot what is real!!! Is like the Matrix.. Ye im crazy we are going after pleasure, what better could it get than boning a whole bunch of pussies... Ye ur hittin it and so what ? that is nothin special.. ur just another avg human being that is doin what u gotta do (YALL UNDERSTAND ? ) what we need is an extordanary life i dunno whether i spelled that right or not but idc
My goal from this is not just 2 get the girl.. that is really pathetic if u think about it, there are billion other people that think like that but how many think of buildin a somethin new and innovative? how many think of becomin a president and controlling a whole nation.. Whether this post is long or not this is i think one of the most important posts out here!
yes.what do you mean when you say you did a "dance floor approach"? you just grind up on them or what
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Thanks.My Name is Nobody said:Not bad ChriZ you are doing great. This is what I've been saying all along for the past couple years... just hit on every cute girl you see and you will have success. It really is a numbers game.
ChrizZ said:Thanks.
I still don't get how to get the super hotties though.
I always see them with average looking guys that dress in tshirts, jeans and tennis shoes...
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I hope so, too.My Name is Nobody said:I'm still working on that myself. Put it this way if you are only 18, you are in great shape. You will probably be getting more hot tail than all of us in 5 years.
ChrizZ said:I hope so, too.
I think to get the super hotties you need to have a super body and I don't have that...yet.
They prolly only date super average looking guys because they are in their social circles.
I know what you're talking about.My Name is Nobody said:Yeah, but those meatheads are some of the biggest AFC's out there. You need the bod + the game. It's funny seeing those meatheads act so AFC, I saw it at the bar the other day.
A hot body makes it way easier though.DonJoseCantosie said:Hey Chris...i doubt u have to have a fine body to pull the super hot girls man. Ive seen/heard about guys with game, and they didn't have a super body...yet they were approaching like u and me and still were successful.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.