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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I am at a point where I'm completely immune to any kind of criticism.TheRealSupreme said:Have you gotten to the state where you are just flowing yet? Where you talk to folks around you like it's no big deal? You see a pretty girl and you chat her up?
Why do you feel you need more info just to get a girl to talk to you? This is the one thing that mystifies me about pua's. They always think they need more info to make it work.ChrizZ said:I am at a point where I'm completely immune to any kind of criticism.
I can talk to anyone, anytime any place.
So I minimized my AA and my BL and voice tonality is good.
Now it's time to get some structure in my game.
I will seriously devote time now learning the juggler method since it is the most natural out there and it makes the most sense to me...
What's wrong with wanting hot b!tches?eatgel said:Nah what u need is a purpose, you are going after girls just because of their " FLESH " i dont know if that is real or not but to me that seems 2 be the reason.. I found out that in life we are brainwashed and forgot what is real!!! Is like the Matrix.. Ye im crazy we are going after pleasure, what better could it get than boning a whole bunch of pussies... Ye ur hittin it and so what ? that is nothin special.. ur just another avg human being that is doin what u gotta do (YALL UNDERSTAND ? ) what we need is an extordanary life i dunno whether i spelled that right or not but idc
My goal from this is not just 2 get the girl.. that is really pathetic if u think about it, there are billion other people that think like that but how many think of buildin a somethin new and innovative? how many think of becomin a president and controlling a whole nation.. Whether this post is long or not this is i think one of the most important posts out here!
yes.what do you mean when you say you did a "dance floor approach"? you just grind up on them or what
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Thanks.My Name is Nobody said:Not bad ChriZ you are doing great. This is what I've been saying all along for the past couple years... just hit on every cute girl you see and you will have success. It really is a numbers game.
ChrizZ said:Thanks.
I still don't get how to get the super hotties though.
I always see them with average looking guys that dress in tshirts, jeans and tennis shoes...
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I hope so, too.My Name is Nobody said:I'm still working on that myself. Put it this way if you are only 18, you are in great shape. You will probably be getting more hot tail than all of us in 5 years.
ChrizZ said:I hope so, too.
I think to get the super hotties you need to have a super body and I don't have that...yet.
They prolly only date super average looking guys because they are in their social circles.
I know what you're talking about.My Name is Nobody said:Yeah, but those meatheads are some of the biggest AFC's out there. You need the bod + the game. It's funny seeing those meatheads act so AFC, I saw it at the bar the other day.
A hot body makes it way easier though.DonJoseCantosie said:Hey Chris...i doubt u have to have a fine body to pull the super hot girls man. Ive seen/heard about guys with game, and they didn't have a super body...yet they were approaching like u and me and still were successful.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.