"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm About To Snap!!!

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good Stuff ChriZz...enjoying ur FRs as always.
 

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One more approach today. I couldn't find any more girls worth approaching.

I was in a bookstore and the girl working at the counter was pretty cute. She was also eyeballing me.

HB: Hi, how may I help you?

Me: *Handing her some pencils that I wanted to buy* You are much cuter than the average girls that are working here.

HB: Oh, thank you...

HB: Do you want a bag with that?

Me: *Checking her out* Nah, in your case I don't think that's gonna be necessary.

HB: *laughs*

Me: I'm just kidding. A bag would be fine. A bag and your phone number is all I need for now.

HB: I'm sorry, I can't do both :(

Me: I understand. I'll just take the phone number then.

HB: *giggles* I'm sorry I can't do that. Here you go *Hands me the bag*

Me: Have a good day blablabla

HB: You, too!


I'm gonna try to find more chicks later on...
 
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I was at ArronBrothers Art store buying a T-Square Monday night. The girl behind the counter was named Erin. So I asked her how many times she get's reference to her name and the name of the store.

We ended up having a 5 minute convo with her telling me she averages 5 idiots a day saying something about her name. They even ask if she owns the store. Her thoughts were if I owned the store I certainly wouldn't be here working now would I...

When you get into the flow it's no big deal to talk to girls and hold a decent convo with them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheRealSupreme said:
Have you gotten to the state where you are just flowing yet? Where you talk to folks around you like it's no big deal? You see a pretty girl and you chat her up?
I am at a point where I'm completely immune to any kind of criticism.

I can talk to anyone, anytime any place.

So I minimized my AA and my BL and voice tonality is good.

Now it's time to get some structure in my game.

I will seriously devote time now learning the juggler method since it is the most natural out there and it makes the most sense to me...
 

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Okay... I was supposed to have a date today, but she flaked.

It's all good though. Some other girl that I met in a club a while ago just texted me and tells me she wants to hang out with me.

Here is how the text convo went:

Her: Hey!! what have u been up to? I haven't talked to u in a while?

Me: Hey stranger ;)
Partying and studying. The usual. U going to blablabla tonight?

Her: Sounds like fun!! No, I don't think I'm going to blablabla tonight. R u?

Me: Yeah. I still remember the last time we danced. I think you are quite unique and I would like to get to know you properly. Why don't we get coffee next week? When r u free?

Her: Yeah, that would be great!! Umm I have 3 exams and 2 quizzes in 3days but what do u have going on thurs or fri?

Me: I could do thurs. Would 800 at blablabla be fine?

Her: Yeah, that sounds great!!


...going to a club now to get more women 8)
 
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ChrizZ said:
I am at a point where I'm completely immune to any kind of criticism.

I can talk to anyone, anytime any place.

So I minimized my AA and my BL and voice tonality is good.

Now it's time to get some structure in my game.

I will seriously devote time now learning the juggler method since it is the most natural out there and it makes the most sense to me...
Why do you feel you need more info just to get a girl to talk to you? This is the one thing that mystifies me about pua's. They always think they need more info to make it work.

What you need is more practice.
 

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Nah what u need is a purpose, you are going after girls just because of their " FLESH " i dont know if that is real or not but to me that seems 2 be the reason.. I found out that in life we are brainwashed and forgot what is real!!! Is like the Matrix.. Ye im crazy we are going after pleasure, what better could it get than boning a whole bunch of pussies... Ye ur hittin it and so what ? that is nothin special.. ur just another avg human being that is doin what u gotta do (YALL UNDERSTAND ? ) what we need is an extordanary life i dunno whether i spelled that right or not but idc
My goal from this is not just 2 get the girl.. that is really pathetic if u think about it, there are billion other people that think like that but how many think of buildin a somethin new and innovative? how many think of becomin a president and controlling a whole nation.. Whether this post is long or not this is i think one of the most important posts out here!
 

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eatgel said:
Nah what u need is a purpose, you are going after girls just because of their " FLESH " i dont know if that is real or not but to me that seems 2 be the reason.. I found out that in life we are brainwashed and forgot what is real!!! Is like the Matrix.. Ye im crazy we are going after pleasure, what better could it get than boning a whole bunch of pussies... Ye ur hittin it and so what ? that is nothin special.. ur just another avg human being that is doin what u gotta do (YALL UNDERSTAND ? ) what we need is an extordanary life i dunno whether i spelled that right or not but idc
My goal from this is not just 2 get the girl.. that is really pathetic if u think about it, there are billion other people that think like that but how many think of buildin a somethin new and innovative? how many think of becomin a president and controlling a whole nation.. Whether this post is long or not this is i think one of the most important posts out here!
What's wrong with wanting hot b!tches?

what do you mean when you say you did a "dance floor approach"? you just grind up on them or what
yes.
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Just got back from a club.

The usual gay bar scenario. 80% guys in there, 19% girls and one f--king Indian shemale. Was funny as hell though watching the guys at the wall (pervert row) drooling over the few chicks that were dancing on the dance floor.

There was a five set at the entrance. I talked to them for a while. I honestly can't remember what I said though. It lasted about 10 minutes. Then I went on the dance floor and danced with a couple of chicks. I danced with a hottie and after a while I started talking to her while dancing.

Me: What are you doing after this?

Her: Going back to my dorm.

Me: Wanna come home with me?

Her: No.

That's when I pushed her away and started dancing with some other girls. There were no more hotties in the club though except for one chick.

She was sitting by herself. She was one of the girls I opened when I entered the club.

Me: Are your friends mean to you?

Her: haha, no.

Me: You must be the antisocial one of the group then. You never told me your name.

Her: I'm blablabala

Me: I'm Chris. So what's it like growing up in Iowa?

Her: It's okay. I like it.

Me: What do you like about it?

Her: I have never really been anywhere else except for some other places.

...then we went into traveling and talked for a while.

Me: So what do you study then?

Her: Graphic design.

Me: Oh, really. How does that work?

Her: blablabla

Me: Oh, a sexy artist. I like that. (She didn't here the damn SOI though because my roommate interrupted me and talked about computers and stuff with her and she got bored and left!!!!)

I had a fun night though, although nothing happened. It was just a Thursday night, so tomorrow is gonna be better...
 

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Just got back from a club. A different club this time which was better than the other club I usually go to.

I had a little off night.

Only two chicks were feeling me in the club.

Just two make outs. One chick was an 8. She had a really slim body and huge boobs. The other chick was about 5 foot tall and I'd rate her a 7.
That's pretty much all that happened.
 
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Not bad ChriZ you are doing great. This is what I've been saying all along for the past couple years... just hit on every cute girl you see and you will have success. It really is a numbers game.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
Not bad ChriZ you are doing great. This is what I've been saying all along for the past couple years... just hit on every cute girl you see and you will have success. It really is a numbers game.
Thanks.

I still don't get how to get the super hotties though.

I always see them with average looking guys that dress in tshirts, jeans and tennis shoes...
 
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ChrizZ said:
Thanks.

I still don't get how to get the super hotties though.

I always see them with average looking guys that dress in tshirts, jeans and tennis shoes...

I'm still working on that myself. Put it this way if you are only 18, you are in great shape. You will probably be getting more hot tail than all of us in 5 years.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My Name is Nobody said:
I'm still working on that myself. Put it this way if you are only 18, you are in great shape. You will probably be getting more hot tail than all of us in 5 years.
I hope so, too.

I think to get the super hotties you need to have a super body and I don't have that...yet.

They prolly only date super average looking guys because they are in their social circles.
 
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ChrizZ said:
I hope so, too.

I think to get the super hotties you need to have a super body and I don't have that...yet.

They prolly only date super average looking guys because they are in their social circles.

Yeah, but those meatheads are some of the biggest AFC's out there. You need the bod + the game. It's funny seeing those meatheads act so AFC, I saw it at the bar the other day.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
Yeah, but those meatheads are some of the biggest AFC's out there. You need the bod + the game. It's funny seeing those meatheads act so AFC, I saw it at the bar the other day.
I know what you're talking about.

I used to have a friend who couldn't even look women in the eye. He was the definition of an AFC.

All he did was stand at the wall with a beer in his hand.

But hey, the chicks were flocking at him because he had a super body. He was just a super pu$$y and was totally afraid to escalate...
 

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Hey Chris...i doubt u have to have a fine body to pull the super hot girls man. Ive seen/heard about guys with game, and they didn't have a super body...yet they were approaching like u and me and still were successful.
 

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DonJoseCantosie said:
Hey Chris...i doubt u have to have a fine body to pull the super hot girls man. Ive seen/heard about guys with game, and they didn't have a super body...yet they were approaching like u and me and still were successful.
A hot body makes it way easier though.
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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