"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I'm About To Snap!!!
- Thread starter ChrizZ
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Do you have any idea how important dress is in the game? Ask yourself what do women love to do during their free time. Shop. Go look at the number of style and dress magazines that are on the shelves for women to look at. Then look at the number of programs that do make overs for women and men that women watch.
Now take a look at the car you drive and hopefully your not one of those nerdy types that drive a scion box car and wear white socks and black shoes and white shirts with a parted hair do and glasses dog.
What attracted you to that car? The look more than likely if your like any redblooded young man in America.
Watch womens eyes when they walk by a shoe store. They are attracted to the look of shoes. The form. The styling.
Women are very very visual when it comes to dress and they love a sharp dressed man. Even in your culture they do. The azn playa's who are pimps...how do they dress...you got it.
Why do they dress this way?
Because they know the minds of women and they are using womens own shyt against them.
Now as for inner game. This should never be discounted.
If you only had inner game that was strong and confident...you wouldn't be on a site like this. You would be busy dating lots of hot women.
They asn guys who get lots of white girls have strong inner game and do not have the typical azn hang ups and they have left all that family programming behind.
What happens to pua's who get comfortable yelling their scripts in a females face? Their inner game grows because they feel confident in the number system and the routines they do.
As for energy:
Everything is energy which breaks down into vibration.
You ever hear a woman say "he just didn't feel right to me?" Women can tap into the vib level of men and pick up the weak ones in 5 seconds. They can smell your fear on you.
I say this from over 20 years experience in the game of gaming women. I know women.
Yes Chrisz could of learned this and how to take advantage of it somewhere else. He could of went to a site on inner game. Then another site on dressing cool. Then another on getting the right attitude. Then another on learning the metaphysics of the game and so on and so on.
But I think you know where I am going with this.
pz
Although I don't completely agree with Supreme on everything I can tell you that his podcasts and feedback helped me out a lot and opened my eyes to a lot of things while most of what I learned on sosuave was counterproductive.AznPlaya said:
The more you work on this "basic ****" the easier the game gets...
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What did you create, i know u teaching the fundamentals and that is all you need but im really interested in more than dressin good, and inner game and all that **** ya dig. And most the sht u say is right but somtimes i think u get a lil stereotypical maybe.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The forums are almost useless for advice since for more complicated issues everyone has a different opinion and it's hard separate KBJs from actual DJs.SinJester said:
You never know who the person behind the screen is. Theoretically I could be an evil 80 year old grandma getting a kick out of teasing young AFC pu$$ies.
It is easy to get suckered in into reading tons and tons of material and then hardly applying it in real life.
There is only one way.
YOU have to EXPERIENCE everything for yourself.
Make yourself as attractive as possible and approach at least 7 women a day for 6 months straight.
Experience beats everything.
I would approach 6 or 7 chicks a day for 6 months, the only problem is where I live I probably would have approached everyone in a couple weeks...
Hey I'll stop spammin your thread now. Your field reports are actually a personal inspiration.
It's okay.SinJester said:
Just send me a PM next time if you have questions.
I'll also help you out with your other thread because I used to be in the exact same situation.
You are one of the few people on here who are willing to learn so I'm glad to help.
The first one was a total crash and burn.
A girl was sitting by herself and I was sitting at the table next to her.
Me: "Hey, what are some good bars to check out around here?"
Her: "Why, are you doing a survery or something?"
Me: "No."
Her: "Well, there is blablabla"
Me: "Thanks. Whats your name btw?"
Her: "I'm blablabla"
Me: "I'm Chris. Nice to meet you."
Her: "I'm sorry, but I really need to get this studying done"
*Then she just turned away and I ejected*
Second approach:
I had to get to class soon, but then I saw a super hottie sitting there with her BF. Suddenly her bf leaves, so I walk up to her and sit down. I knew I had to be quick.
Me: "Hi, I saw you from back there and I knew I was gonna kick myself if I didn't come and talk to you"
HB: "Okay..." *smiles*
Me: Whats your name?
HB: Natalie
Me: I'm Chris.
Me: "So tell me something about you Natalie"
HB: Well, I just transfered from blablabla
Me: Oh, me too.
HB: How old are you?
Me: Guess...
HB: 27? (lol)
Me: Close! I'm 25...
HB: I'm 19
Me: Good, you need guidance then.
... we keep talking for a little bit...
Me: So, what do u study?
HB: Graphics design.
Me: Sexy and artistic. I like that. What else do you do?
HB: blablabla.
Then I saw her bf coming back from far away.
Me: Listen, I gotta get to class. Let me get your number though before I leave.
Her: Hmm, you can add me on facebook...
Me: I don't do facebook.
Her: Well, okay, it's balbalbalba
She is very likely to flake, but at least I tried...
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Def man, trust me. Most of the time, if there's a girl ur very attracted to and u direct her, i **** u not, 75-80% of the time...that girl will be receptive, since it truly shows in ur face and u'd look her in the eye a certain way.ChrizZ said:
Whoever says indirect is better during the day, its the exact opposite. Direct is much better compared to indirect for the day.
But as for me, Direct...a good amount of girls have been receptive, i just haven't done day much lately but i plan to.
I SAW TWO HOT CHICKS TODAY. BOTH WERE EYEFVCKING ME AND I DIDN'T DO ANYTHING!
I'm SO MAD RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!!:cuss:
TODAY, LATER ON I'M GONNA APPROACH WHENEVER I SEE A HOT CHICK. COME HELL OR HIGH WATER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
GROAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAR!!!!!!!!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.