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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I am at a point where I'm completely immune to any kind of criticism.TheRealSupreme said:Have you gotten to the state where you are just flowing yet? Where you talk to folks around you like it's no big deal? You see a pretty girl and you chat her up?
Why do you feel you need more info just to get a girl to talk to you? This is the one thing that mystifies me about pua's. They always think they need more info to make it work.ChrizZ said:I am at a point where I'm completely immune to any kind of criticism.
I can talk to anyone, anytime any place.
So I minimized my AA and my BL and voice tonality is good.
Now it's time to get some structure in my game.
I will seriously devote time now learning the juggler method since it is the most natural out there and it makes the most sense to me...
What's wrong with wanting hot b!tches?eatgel said:Nah what u need is a purpose, you are going after girls just because of their " FLESH " i dont know if that is real or not but to me that seems 2 be the reason.. I found out that in life we are brainwashed and forgot what is real!!! Is like the Matrix.. Ye im crazy we are going after pleasure, what better could it get than boning a whole bunch of pussies... Ye ur hittin it and so what ? that is nothin special.. ur just another avg human being that is doin what u gotta do (YALL UNDERSTAND ? ) what we need is an extordanary life i dunno whether i spelled that right or not but idc
My goal from this is not just 2 get the girl.. that is really pathetic if u think about it, there are billion other people that think like that but how many think of buildin a somethin new and innovative? how many think of becomin a president and controlling a whole nation.. Whether this post is long or not this is i think one of the most important posts out here!
yes.what do you mean when you say you did a "dance floor approach"? you just grind up on them or what
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Thanks.My Name is Nobody said:Not bad ChriZ you are doing great. This is what I've been saying all along for the past couple years... just hit on every cute girl you see and you will have success. It really is a numbers game.
ChrizZ said:Thanks.
I still don't get how to get the super hotties though.
I always see them with average looking guys that dress in tshirts, jeans and tennis shoes...
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I hope so, too.My Name is Nobody said:I'm still working on that myself. Put it this way if you are only 18, you are in great shape. You will probably be getting more hot tail than all of us in 5 years.
ChrizZ said:I hope so, too.
I think to get the super hotties you need to have a super body and I don't have that...yet.
They prolly only date super average looking guys because they are in their social circles.
I know what you're talking about.My Name is Nobody said:Yeah, but those meatheads are some of the biggest AFC's out there. You need the bod + the game. It's funny seeing those meatheads act so AFC, I saw it at the bar the other day.
A hot body makes it way easier though.DonJoseCantosie said:Hey Chris...i doubt u have to have a fine body to pull the super hot girls man. Ive seen/heard about guys with game, and they didn't have a super body...yet they were approaching like u and me and still were successful.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.