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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I am at a point where I'm completely immune to any kind of criticism.TheRealSupreme said:Have you gotten to the state where you are just flowing yet? Where you talk to folks around you like it's no big deal? You see a pretty girl and you chat her up?
Why do you feel you need more info just to get a girl to talk to you? This is the one thing that mystifies me about pua's. They always think they need more info to make it work.ChrizZ said:I am at a point where I'm completely immune to any kind of criticism.
I can talk to anyone, anytime any place.
So I minimized my AA and my BL and voice tonality is good.
Now it's time to get some structure in my game.
I will seriously devote time now learning the juggler method since it is the most natural out there and it makes the most sense to me...
What's wrong with wanting hot b!tches?eatgel said:Nah what u need is a purpose, you are going after girls just because of their " FLESH " i dont know if that is real or not but to me that seems 2 be the reason.. I found out that in life we are brainwashed and forgot what is real!!! Is like the Matrix.. Ye im crazy we are going after pleasure, what better could it get than boning a whole bunch of pussies... Ye ur hittin it and so what ? that is nothin special.. ur just another avg human being that is doin what u gotta do (YALL UNDERSTAND ? ) what we need is an extordanary life i dunno whether i spelled that right or not but idc
My goal from this is not just 2 get the girl.. that is really pathetic if u think about it, there are billion other people that think like that but how many think of buildin a somethin new and innovative? how many think of becomin a president and controlling a whole nation.. Whether this post is long or not this is i think one of the most important posts out here!
yes.what do you mean when you say you did a "dance floor approach"? you just grind up on them or what
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Thanks.My Name is Nobody said:Not bad ChriZ you are doing great. This is what I've been saying all along for the past couple years... just hit on every cute girl you see and you will have success. It really is a numbers game.
ChrizZ said:Thanks.
I still don't get how to get the super hotties though.
I always see them with average looking guys that dress in tshirts, jeans and tennis shoes...
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I hope so, too.My Name is Nobody said:I'm still working on that myself. Put it this way if you are only 18, you are in great shape. You will probably be getting more hot tail than all of us in 5 years.
ChrizZ said:I hope so, too.
I think to get the super hotties you need to have a super body and I don't have that...yet.
They prolly only date super average looking guys because they are in their social circles.
I know what you're talking about.My Name is Nobody said:Yeah, but those meatheads are some of the biggest AFC's out there. You need the bod + the game. It's funny seeing those meatheads act so AFC, I saw it at the bar the other day.
A hot body makes it way easier though.DonJoseCantosie said:Hey Chris...i doubt u have to have a fine body to pull the super hot girls man. Ive seen/heard about guys with game, and they didn't have a super body...yet they were approaching like u and me and still were successful.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.