Do you tell them why you went nc if they try and contact and ask why you have not been contacting them or do you just bs them and say youre busy...i think it would be better to just be straight up with them but like to hear opinions and previous experiences
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If you go NC and they contact you do you tell them why you have not been contacting
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Well the thing with NC is its supposed to lead to a frame reset.
You only do NC when you have dropped your frame and the interactions are all going to **** (unless its a hard nc because a girl you were exclusive with cheated on you etc)
So the point is if you have re-etablished frame you arent going to start bitching about the past are you.
"Oh hey nah i wasnt ignoring you just had a ton on lately, good to hear from you though, so when are you buying me a drink?"
That's a fairly standard response
You only do NC when you have dropped your frame and the interactions are all going to **** (unless its a hard nc because a girl you were exclusive with cheated on you etc)
So the point is if you have re-etablished frame you arent going to start bitching about the past are you.
"Oh hey nah i wasnt ignoring you just had a ton on lately, good to hear from you though, so when are you buying me a drink?"
That's a fairly standard response
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
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NO, you never admit that to them. It sounds like a good, honest thing to do in your mind, but it will only backfire on you. 2 things will happen
1. she will think your a little wuss, because you've allowed her to get under your skin, and change your behavior with her
2. she will start acting funny, and playing games and ignoring you sometimes, on some tick for tack type of ****. Even if you apoligize it wont matter, she will feel some type of way about it, because she is a woman
1. she will think your a little wuss, because you've allowed her to get under your skin, and change your behavior with her
2. she will start acting funny, and playing games and ignoring you sometimes, on some tick for tack type of ****. Even if you apoligize it wont matter, she will feel some type of way about it, because she is a woman
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Not doing it right kuz!
You go N/C and disappear. You ghost her and you leave the ambiguity to her to figure out. Meanwhile, you go get more babes all on top form 18-23. No sweeter feel then running into women from the past and you got someone 10years younger.
Jimmies be rustled.
You go N/C and disappear. You ghost her and you leave the ambiguity to her to figure out. Meanwhile, you go get more babes all on top form 18-23. No sweeter feel then running into women from the past and you got someone 10years younger.
Jimmies be rustled.
Woman: ‘Why haven’t you called me?”
Man; ‘Why haven’t you called me?’