You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Doesnt always mean your fine if u wear a condom bro. I know someone who got GW on the base of his di*k and wore a condom...cola said:A yeast infection will have a white or yellow cream like substance and does come with odor. Men can get yeast infections but its uncommon. You are fine. You wore a condon. 9-10 she had a yeast infection and probably didn't know.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I realized that, I coudlnt even fu*k her..I pulled out after 3-5 min, I knew something was up. Im just concerned I have something now.f283000 said:If a girls pus*y smells..BAD.........
RUN!!
Its POF bro. What more can you except. Funny part is, i only started talking to her today. This is the 3rd chick this happened off of POF with. No date either just brought her right to my room to "watch a movie" Thank god I wrapped it up with all of the girls I banged off of there (About 9 so far)backbreaker said:lol, do you know how filthy of a female you have to be to know your **** smells like the ground of an amazon rainforest, yet still have the nerve to let a guy see you naked and smell you and all that stuff?
ugh.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Bro I get it whenever I want from my FWB's..Wanted to try a new girl tonight. I made a mistake believe me I know, thats why I pulled out after 3-5 min, and never went in again!!women haze said:WTF you are that desperate for poon???? LOL
f283000 said:If a girls pus*y smells..BAD.........
RUN!!
Amen to this ^backbreaker said:lol, do you know how filthy of a female you have to be to know your **** smells like the ground of an amazon rainforest, yet still have the nerve to let a guy see you naked and smell you and all that stuff?
ugh.
When you think it over it's a lack of self respect on the part of the girl (not cleaning herself) and a show of disrespect towards the guy.lol, do you know how filthy of a female you have to be to know your **** smells like the ground of an amazon rainforest, yet still have the nerve to let a guy see you naked and smell you and all that stuff?
ugh.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That post rocks. So you did it anyway, in other words. :rockon:Crissco said:Does it mean shes has something?
Also the condom got really really dry afterwards, i was reading it could be a yeast infection....Can that get transferred over to guys?
Actually, plenty of foul. I guess that's what POF stands for.Poonani Maker said:All women are different. Take the good with the bad. I've had that happen. It's called cvnt butter. No harm, no foul, just stinks. Try flipping her over, might not stink as bad.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.