You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Doesnt always mean your fine if u wear a condom bro. I know someone who got GW on the base of his di*k and wore a condom...cola said:A yeast infection will have a white or yellow cream like substance and does come with odor. Men can get yeast infections but its uncommon. You are fine. You wore a condon. 9-10 she had a yeast infection and probably didn't know.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I realized that, I coudlnt even fu*k her..I pulled out after 3-5 min, I knew something was up. Im just concerned I have something now.f283000 said:If a girls pus*y smells..BAD.........
RUN!!
Its POF bro. What more can you except. Funny part is, i only started talking to her today. This is the 3rd chick this happened off of POF with. No date either just brought her right to my room to "watch a movie" Thank god I wrapped it up with all of the girls I banged off of there (About 9 so far)backbreaker said:lol, do you know how filthy of a female you have to be to know your **** smells like the ground of an amazon rainforest, yet still have the nerve to let a guy see you naked and smell you and all that stuff?
ugh.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Bro I get it whenever I want from my FWB's..Wanted to try a new girl tonight. I made a mistake believe me I know, thats why I pulled out after 3-5 min, and never went in again!!women haze said:WTF you are that desperate for poon???? LOL
f283000 said:If a girls pus*y smells..BAD.........
RUN!!
Amen to this ^backbreaker said:lol, do you know how filthy of a female you have to be to know your **** smells like the ground of an amazon rainforest, yet still have the nerve to let a guy see you naked and smell you and all that stuff?
ugh.
When you think it over it's a lack of self respect on the part of the girl (not cleaning herself) and a show of disrespect towards the guy.lol, do you know how filthy of a female you have to be to know your **** smells like the ground of an amazon rainforest, yet still have the nerve to let a guy see you naked and smell you and all that stuff?
ugh.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
That post rocks. So you did it anyway, in other words. :rockon:Crissco said:Does it mean shes has something?
Also the condom got really really dry afterwards, i was reading it could be a yeast infection....Can that get transferred over to guys?
Actually, plenty of foul. I guess that's what POF stands for.Poonani Maker said:All women are different. Take the good with the bad. I've had that happen. It's called cvnt butter. No harm, no foul, just stinks. Try flipping her over, might not stink as bad.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.