Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Doesnt always mean your fine if u wear a condom bro. I know someone who got GW on the base of his di*k and wore a condom...cola said:A yeast infection will have a white or yellow cream like substance and does come with odor. Men can get yeast infections but its uncommon. You are fine. You wore a condon. 9-10 she had a yeast infection and probably didn't know.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I realized that, I coudlnt even fu*k her..I pulled out after 3-5 min, I knew something was up. Im just concerned I have something now.f283000 said:If a girls pus*y smells..BAD.........
RUN!!
Its POF bro. What more can you except. Funny part is, i only started talking to her today. This is the 3rd chick this happened off of POF with. No date either just brought her right to my room to "watch a movie" Thank god I wrapped it up with all of the girls I banged off of there (About 9 so far)backbreaker said:lol, do you know how filthy of a female you have to be to know your **** smells like the ground of an amazon rainforest, yet still have the nerve to let a guy see you naked and smell you and all that stuff?
ugh.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bro I get it whenever I want from my FWB's..Wanted to try a new girl tonight. I made a mistake believe me I know, thats why I pulled out after 3-5 min, and never went in again!!women haze said:WTF you are that desperate for poon???? LOL
f283000 said:If a girls pus*y smells..BAD.........
RUN!!
Amen to this ^backbreaker said:lol, do you know how filthy of a female you have to be to know your **** smells like the ground of an amazon rainforest, yet still have the nerve to let a guy see you naked and smell you and all that stuff?
ugh.
When you think it over it's a lack of self respect on the part of the girl (not cleaning herself) and a show of disrespect towards the guy.lol, do you know how filthy of a female you have to be to know your **** smells like the ground of an amazon rainforest, yet still have the nerve to let a guy see you naked and smell you and all that stuff?
ugh.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That post rocks. So you did it anyway, in other words. :rockon:Crissco said:Does it mean shes has something?
Also the condom got really really dry afterwards, i was reading it could be a yeast infection....Can that get transferred over to guys?
Actually, plenty of foul. I guess that's what POF stands for.Poonani Maker said:All women are different. Take the good with the bad. I've had that happen. It's called cvnt butter. No harm, no foul, just stinks. Try flipping her over, might not stink as bad.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.