"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
If a girls pus*y smells..BAD
- Thread starter Crissco
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
ugh.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
Its POF bro. What more can you except. Funny part is, i only started talking to her today. This is the 3rd chick this happened off of POF with. No date either just brought her right to my room to "watch a movie" Thank god I wrapped it up with all of the girls I banged off of there (About 9 so far)backbreaker said:
women haze
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
Bro I get it whenever I want from my FWB's..Wanted to try a new girl tonight. I made a mistake believe me I know, thats why I pulled out after 3-5 min, and never went in again!!women haze said:
Masculinity
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f283000 said:
Amen to this ^backbreaker said:
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
When you think it over it's a lack of self respect on the part of the girl (not cleaning herself) and a show of disrespect towards the guy.
Would she have done this to Brad Pitt? George Clooney? You bet she would have sprayed her vag with aerosol if she was about to f__ them!
One of the quickest ways you can tell if a woman is low quality or not is by looking at her apartment. If it's all messy, dirty, clothes everywhere (including panties) you know her personal hygiene won't be much better and she won't make a good mother for your kids.
Poonani Maker
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
maverick72
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POF is loaded with women who have herpes and and all kinds of nasties. Tampa has the highest known cases of AIDS and STD's in the country.
Get checked out at your local health department.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Actually, plenty of foul. I guess that's what POF stands for.Poonani Maker said:
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.