"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If 20% of men are doing 80% of the ****ing...

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jacking off. Porn sites make tons of money
 

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20/80 sounds close to right. It's more of a generalisation that says that the few charming men out there are the ones that get most of the women.

You have to remember that the 80% are still having sex, just less, with less attractive women, and they are pu55y whipped and controlled in relationships.
 

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Do you think the 20/80 rule applies to women as well?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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goodfoot said:
Do you think the 20/80 rule applies to women as well?

Absolutely, we men write off a woman as 'unwanted' if she is fat, ugly, old or has kids. There is only a small percentage of women whom all the guys want.
 

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Duffdog said:
Absolutely, we men write off a woman as 'unwanted' if she is fat, ugly, old or has kids. There is only a small percentage of women whom all the guys want.
but only a small percentage of guys will get the woman that all guys want.

for every one male who'll write those woman off,
there are at least 10 who'll go with them.

i've seen this alot

a large group of girls (average, above average, cute, hot girls) will pine for a small group of guys (dj, a**holes, playas) while being persued by a larger group of guys (some playas, afcs, nice guys)
 

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Kerpal said:
+1

In any public place, you can look around and tell which guys get laid regularly and which don't. On the other hand, pretty much any girl gets laid as much as she wants.
What are the signs a man doesn't get laid regularly?
 

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What are the signs a man doesn't get laid regularly?
There aren't any..

Can't go by looks cause I know guys with movie star looks who get no tang..
And ugly guys who are beating women away with a stick..

Body lanaguage maybe..
But most people aren't that good at advanced body language..
Just the subconscious basics..

And further more who gives a **** about the "really hot ones".. anyways?
After hb 7 looks don't really matter cuz ***** is puzzy.. and if I'm really horny I may bang a 6
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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A observation:

I notice a lot of guys don't get results because there asking for others what they don't have in themselves..

For instance: if she is a fitness model.. drives a mercedes and lives in a 2000$ a month condo..

And your in moderate shape.. drive a honda accord and live in your moms house .. chances are.. she's not going to want you..
She's going to want a fit guy with a chizzled physique.. a audi and his own house..
But she's not wrong for wanting that because she has it herself..

Now its a numbers game and you will get thoes type of chicks if you target them enough
OCCASSIONALLY..
But if you want to get girls on a consistent basis you should stick to your own calibur..

Me for example:
I'm a thick guy.. not really fat.. think of a linebacker..
Some chicks think this is sexy.. others think its not.. they want thin in shape guys..
Brad pitt in fight club for example..(man that guys abs were chizzled in that movie)

But I go for chicks that are kind of thick.. not fat nor skinny sort of in the middle..
Think kelly clarkson for example..
But this is ok because I like big bootys and d cup tits..

I will go for girls who are 9s and 10s and get them occassionally..
But why when I can get 7s frequently?

Think of this ratio..
I rate my self a 7.5..
1 out of every 15 hb 10s may give me play..
1 out every 5 hb 7s will give me play..

Why waste my time on the 10s when I can get quadruple the results on the 7s..
Hope this puts pickup in perspective for a lot of you
Peace..
-chris
 

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cola said:
A observation:

I notice a lot of guys don't get results because there asking for others what they don't have in themselves..

For instance: if she is a fitness model.. drives a mercedes and lives in a 2000$ a month condo..

And your in moderate shape.. drive a honda accord and live in your moms house .. chances are.. she's not going to want you..
She's going to want a fit guy with a chizzled physique.. a audi and his own house..
But she's not wrong for wanting that because she has it herself..

Now its a numbers game and you will get thoes type of chicks if you target them enough
OCCASSIONALLY..
But if you want to get girls on a consistent basis you should stick to your own calibur..

Me for example:
I'm a thick guy.. not really fat.. think of a linebacker..
Some chicks think this is sexy.. others think its not.. they want thin in shape guys..
Brad pitt in fight club for example..(man that guys abs were chizzled in that movie)

But I go for chicks that are kind of thick.. not fat nor skinny sort of in the middle..
Think kelly clarkson for example..
But this is ok because I like big bootys and d cup tits..

I will go for girls who are 9s and 10s and get them occassionally..
But why when I can get 7s frequently?

Think of this ratio..
I rate my self a 7.5..
1 out of every 15 hb 10s may give me play..
1 out every 5 hb 7s will give me play..

Why waste my time on the 10s when I can get quadruple the results on the 7s..
Hope this puts pickup in perspective for a lot of you
Peace..
-chris

Your logic is faulty unless you're limiting yourself in the number of approaches. You will get more success overall if you just approach all women you are attracted to... some will have a higher probability of being into you, but overall you will get more women interested. Gaming "at your level" is just a bull**** excuse to try to avoid being turned down as much... if you like what you see go for it.
 

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cola said:
She's going to want a fit guy with a chizzled physique.. a audi and his own house..
All women want this. Without it, you can still attract models, but it can be harder - depending on how you play things.

Now its a numbers game
It's always a numbers game. The more women you approach, the more numbers you will get. If you can approach women, you're ahead of 90% of the men out there. If you can approach them during the daytime in a casual setting, you're ahead of 99% of men.

I will go for girls who are 9s and 10s and get them occassionally..
But why when I can get 7s frequently?
Why waste my time on the 10s when I can get quadruple the results on the 7s..
Hope this puts pickup in perspective for a lot of you
Peace..
-chris
It's best not to deliberately limit yourself. Think you've got less of a chance with a woman, and you'll start acting that way.
 
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i beleive more guys are scared little sheep who settle for less because they are afraid of taking risks. Then they logistic that by saying they are in "love".
 

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You guys don't get what I'm saying..
Your convinced that women are these little magical creatures who can see your aura and if your confident they just get wet for you..

Have you ever sat in a room with 5 to 6 women and heard them talk about men?
Well it sounds almost exactly the same as it would if you were in a room with 5 to 6 men..
Women are into looks just as much and possibly more than men are.

If you want to talk to all women fine.. but I'm not going to waste my time talking to women who aren't interested and if the woman is more successful .. better looking than you chances are.. she's ..not..going..to..be..interested...!!

But like anything there are acceptions to the rule..

If your 25, bald, fvcked up teeth, have a ****ty car and a ****ty job its going to be hard for you to get a girl with miss america looks and this site is giving guys false confidence..

Now if you are 25 and in that situation and want better looking girls than get a hair transplant..
Go back to school..
Start working out..
Get better clothes and I guaren damn tee you that thoes same 10s who didn't give you the time of day will start looking your way now..

I know I have higher success with 7's - 8's than 10s because I field tested this stuff..
And if you are a stickler for the facts scientific studies have shown this..
Humans generally date people with roughly the same, a little higher, or a little lower level of physical attraction to them..

But there are certain things that go with that..
I.e some females are prettier than they think they are
Some females are uglier than they think they are..
Vice versa..
All I'm saying is don't be a scrub..
If you want sexy bvtches earn them
Thanks
Chris
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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cola said:
You guys don't get what I'm saying..
Your convinced that women are these little magical creatures who can see your aura and if your confident they just get wet for you..

Have you ever sat in a room with 5 to 6 women and heard them talk about men?
Well it sounds almost exactly the same as it would if you were in a room with 5 to 6 men..
Women are into looks just as much and possibly more than men are.

If you want to talk to all women fine.. but I'm not going to waste my time talking to women who aren't interested and if the woman is more successful .. better looking than you chances are.. she's ..not..going..to..be..interested...!!
Women don't know what they want... if you're listening to women talk about men and actually taking it as fact, then you're being misinformed. The man that SHOWS the woman what she wants is the man that women want. This isn't about looks as much as it is taking what is rightfully yours. The MEN will get laid more than any pretty boy Brad Pitt lookalike. Most males are fucking pussies, especially the good looking ones.
 

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If you want sexy bvtches earn them
That is such a good message, it would be nice if more men decided to do this instead of finding ways to "trick" the girl into liking you. What if you made her wet just by being yourself, wouldn't that be cool!
 

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What if you made her wet just by being yourself, wouldn't that be cool!
Thats the ultimate goal isn't it.
Except most men initially wear masks of confidence and robes of mystique. But when you grind them down you just see their weak inner core. True confidence comes from within, build up your mind first to make it a solid base to build on. Your mind is the only thing society cannot label or take away from you.

"As you think, you shall become"

With this initial point, you can achieve anything. I advise any guys to stay away from girls who place their interests in material wealth and possesions.
 

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Plus going after chicks with higher social status just puts them on a higher pedestal. DO NOT do this.
 

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20% of the men get ALL - the remaining 80% of the guys get crumbs

I like that - winners take all
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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