spinaroonie
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.. what are the other 80% doing? 
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
goodfoot said:Do you think the 20/80 rule applies to women as well?
but only a small percentage of guys will get the woman that all guys want.Duffdog said:Absolutely, we men write off a woman as 'unwanted' if she is fat, ugly, old or has kids. There is only a small percentage of women whom all the guys want.
What are the signs a man doesn't get laid regularly?Kerpal said:+1
In any public place, you can look around and tell which guys get laid regularly and which don't. On the other hand, pretty much any girl gets laid as much as she wants.
There aren't any..thewarrior said:What are the signs a man doesn't get laid regularly?
No, because men more often settle for less.Do you think the 20/80 rule applies to women as well?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
cola said:A observation:
I notice a lot of guys don't get results because there asking for others what they don't have in themselves..
For instance: if she is a fitness model.. drives a mercedes and lives in a 2000$ a month condo..
And your in moderate shape.. drive a honda accord and live in your moms house .. chances are.. she's not going to want you..
She's going to want a fit guy with a chizzled physique.. a audi and his own house..
But she's not wrong for wanting that because she has it herself..
Now its a numbers game and you will get thoes type of chicks if you target them enough
OCCASSIONALLY..
But if you want to get girls on a consistent basis you should stick to your own calibur..
Me for example:
I'm a thick guy.. not really fat.. think of a linebacker..
Some chicks think this is sexy.. others think its not.. they want thin in shape guys..
Brad pitt in fight club for example..(man that guys abs were chizzled in that movie)
But I go for chicks that are kind of thick.. not fat nor skinny sort of in the middle..
Think kelly clarkson for example..
But this is ok because I like big bootys and d cup tits..
I will go for girls who are 9s and 10s and get them occassionally..
But why when I can get 7s frequently?
Think of this ratio..
I rate my self a 7.5..
1 out of every 15 hb 10s may give me play..
1 out every 5 hb 7s will give me play..
Why waste my time on the 10s when I can get quadruple the results on the 7s..
Hope this puts pickup in perspective for a lot of you
Peace..
-chris
All women want this. Without it, you can still attract models, but it can be harder - depending on how you play things.cola said:She's going to want a fit guy with a chizzled physique.. a audi and his own house..
It's always a numbers game. The more women you approach, the more numbers you will get. If you can approach women, you're ahead of 90% of the men out there. If you can approach them during the daytime in a casual setting, you're ahead of 99% of men.Now its a numbers game
It's best not to deliberately limit yourself. Think you've got less of a chance with a woman, and you'll start acting that way.I will go for girls who are 9s and 10s and get them occassionally..
But why when I can get 7s frequently?
Why waste my time on the 10s when I can get quadruple the results on the 7s..
Hope this puts pickup in perspective for a lot of you
Peace..
-chris
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Women don't know what they want... if you're listening to women talk about men and actually taking it as fact, then you're being misinformed. The man that SHOWS the woman what she wants is the man that women want. This isn't about looks as much as it is taking what is rightfully yours. The MEN will get laid more than any pretty boy Brad Pitt lookalike. Most males are fucking pussies, especially the good looking ones.cola said:You guys don't get what I'm saying..
Your convinced that women are these little magical creatures who can see your aura and if your confident they just get wet for you..
Have you ever sat in a room with 5 to 6 women and heard them talk about men?
Well it sounds almost exactly the same as it would if you were in a room with 5 to 6 men..
Women are into looks just as much and possibly more than men are.
If you want to talk to all women fine.. but I'm not going to waste my time talking to women who aren't interested and if the woman is more successful .. better looking than you chances are.. she's ..not..going..to..be..interested...!!
That is such a good message, it would be nice if more men decided to do this instead of finding ways to "trick" the girl into liking you. What if you made her wet just by being yourself, wouldn't that be cool!If you want sexy bvtches earn them
Thats the ultimate goal isn't it.What if you made her wet just by being yourself, wouldn't that be cool!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.