spinaroonie
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.. what are the other 80% doing? 
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
goodfoot said:Do you think the 20/80 rule applies to women as well?
but only a small percentage of guys will get the woman that all guys want.Duffdog said:Absolutely, we men write off a woman as 'unwanted' if she is fat, ugly, old or has kids. There is only a small percentage of women whom all the guys want.
What are the signs a man doesn't get laid regularly?Kerpal said:+1
In any public place, you can look around and tell which guys get laid regularly and which don't. On the other hand, pretty much any girl gets laid as much as she wants.
There aren't any..thewarrior said:What are the signs a man doesn't get laid regularly?
No, because men more often settle for less.Do you think the 20/80 rule applies to women as well?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
cola said:A observation:
I notice a lot of guys don't get results because there asking for others what they don't have in themselves..
For instance: if she is a fitness model.. drives a mercedes and lives in a 2000$ a month condo..
And your in moderate shape.. drive a honda accord and live in your moms house .. chances are.. she's not going to want you..
She's going to want a fit guy with a chizzled physique.. a audi and his own house..
But she's not wrong for wanting that because she has it herself..
Now its a numbers game and you will get thoes type of chicks if you target them enough
OCCASSIONALLY..
But if you want to get girls on a consistent basis you should stick to your own calibur..
Me for example:
I'm a thick guy.. not really fat.. think of a linebacker..
Some chicks think this is sexy.. others think its not.. they want thin in shape guys..
Brad pitt in fight club for example..(man that guys abs were chizzled in that movie)
But I go for chicks that are kind of thick.. not fat nor skinny sort of in the middle..
Think kelly clarkson for example..
But this is ok because I like big bootys and d cup tits..
I will go for girls who are 9s and 10s and get them occassionally..
But why when I can get 7s frequently?
Think of this ratio..
I rate my self a 7.5..
1 out of every 15 hb 10s may give me play..
1 out every 5 hb 7s will give me play..
Why waste my time on the 10s when I can get quadruple the results on the 7s..
Hope this puts pickup in perspective for a lot of you
Peace..
-chris
All women want this. Without it, you can still attract models, but it can be harder - depending on how you play things.cola said:She's going to want a fit guy with a chizzled physique.. a audi and his own house..
It's always a numbers game. The more women you approach, the more numbers you will get. If you can approach women, you're ahead of 90% of the men out there. If you can approach them during the daytime in a casual setting, you're ahead of 99% of men.Now its a numbers game
It's best not to deliberately limit yourself. Think you've got less of a chance with a woman, and you'll start acting that way.I will go for girls who are 9s and 10s and get them occassionally..
But why when I can get 7s frequently?
Why waste my time on the 10s when I can get quadruple the results on the 7s..
Hope this puts pickup in perspective for a lot of you
Peace..
-chris
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Women don't know what they want... if you're listening to women talk about men and actually taking it as fact, then you're being misinformed. The man that SHOWS the woman what she wants is the man that women want. This isn't about looks as much as it is taking what is rightfully yours. The MEN will get laid more than any pretty boy Brad Pitt lookalike. Most males are fucking pussies, especially the good looking ones.cola said:You guys don't get what I'm saying..
Your convinced that women are these little magical creatures who can see your aura and if your confident they just get wet for you..
Have you ever sat in a room with 5 to 6 women and heard them talk about men?
Well it sounds almost exactly the same as it would if you were in a room with 5 to 6 men..
Women are into looks just as much and possibly more than men are.
If you want to talk to all women fine.. but I'm not going to waste my time talking to women who aren't interested and if the woman is more successful .. better looking than you chances are.. she's ..not..going..to..be..interested...!!
That is such a good message, it would be nice if more men decided to do this instead of finding ways to "trick" the girl into liking you. What if you made her wet just by being yourself, wouldn't that be cool!If you want sexy bvtches earn them
Thats the ultimate goal isn't it.What if you made her wet just by being yourself, wouldn't that be cool!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.