spinaroonie
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.. what are the other 80% doing? 
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
goodfoot said:Do you think the 20/80 rule applies to women as well?
but only a small percentage of guys will get the woman that all guys want.Duffdog said:Absolutely, we men write off a woman as 'unwanted' if she is fat, ugly, old or has kids. There is only a small percentage of women whom all the guys want.
What are the signs a man doesn't get laid regularly?Kerpal said:+1
In any public place, you can look around and tell which guys get laid regularly and which don't. On the other hand, pretty much any girl gets laid as much as she wants.
There aren't any..thewarrior said:What are the signs a man doesn't get laid regularly?
No, because men more often settle for less.Do you think the 20/80 rule applies to women as well?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
cola said:A observation:
I notice a lot of guys don't get results because there asking for others what they don't have in themselves..
For instance: if she is a fitness model.. drives a mercedes and lives in a 2000$ a month condo..
And your in moderate shape.. drive a honda accord and live in your moms house .. chances are.. she's not going to want you..
She's going to want a fit guy with a chizzled physique.. a audi and his own house..
But she's not wrong for wanting that because she has it herself..
Now its a numbers game and you will get thoes type of chicks if you target them enough
OCCASSIONALLY..
But if you want to get girls on a consistent basis you should stick to your own calibur..
Me for example:
I'm a thick guy.. not really fat.. think of a linebacker..
Some chicks think this is sexy.. others think its not.. they want thin in shape guys..
Brad pitt in fight club for example..(man that guys abs were chizzled in that movie)
But I go for chicks that are kind of thick.. not fat nor skinny sort of in the middle..
Think kelly clarkson for example..
But this is ok because I like big bootys and d cup tits..
I will go for girls who are 9s and 10s and get them occassionally..
But why when I can get 7s frequently?
Think of this ratio..
I rate my self a 7.5..
1 out of every 15 hb 10s may give me play..
1 out every 5 hb 7s will give me play..
Why waste my time on the 10s when I can get quadruple the results on the 7s..
Hope this puts pickup in perspective for a lot of you
Peace..
-chris
All women want this. Without it, you can still attract models, but it can be harder - depending on how you play things.cola said:She's going to want a fit guy with a chizzled physique.. a audi and his own house..
It's always a numbers game. The more women you approach, the more numbers you will get. If you can approach women, you're ahead of 90% of the men out there. If you can approach them during the daytime in a casual setting, you're ahead of 99% of men.Now its a numbers game
It's best not to deliberately limit yourself. Think you've got less of a chance with a woman, and you'll start acting that way.I will go for girls who are 9s and 10s and get them occassionally..
But why when I can get 7s frequently?
Why waste my time on the 10s when I can get quadruple the results on the 7s..
Hope this puts pickup in perspective for a lot of you
Peace..
-chris
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Women don't know what they want... if you're listening to women talk about men and actually taking it as fact, then you're being misinformed. The man that SHOWS the woman what she wants is the man that women want. This isn't about looks as much as it is taking what is rightfully yours. The MEN will get laid more than any pretty boy Brad Pitt lookalike. Most males are fucking pussies, especially the good looking ones.cola said:You guys don't get what I'm saying..
Your convinced that women are these little magical creatures who can see your aura and if your confident they just get wet for you..
Have you ever sat in a room with 5 to 6 women and heard them talk about men?
Well it sounds almost exactly the same as it would if you were in a room with 5 to 6 men..
Women are into looks just as much and possibly more than men are.
If you want to talk to all women fine.. but I'm not going to waste my time talking to women who aren't interested and if the woman is more successful .. better looking than you chances are.. she's ..not..going..to..be..interested...!!
That is such a good message, it would be nice if more men decided to do this instead of finding ways to "trick" the girl into liking you. What if you made her wet just by being yourself, wouldn't that be cool!If you want sexy bvtches earn them
Thats the ultimate goal isn't it.What if you made her wet just by being yourself, wouldn't that be cool!
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.