spinaroonie
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.. what are the other 80% doing? 
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
goodfoot said:Do you think the 20/80 rule applies to women as well?
but only a small percentage of guys will get the woman that all guys want.Duffdog said:Absolutely, we men write off a woman as 'unwanted' if she is fat, ugly, old or has kids. There is only a small percentage of women whom all the guys want.
What are the signs a man doesn't get laid regularly?Kerpal said:+1
In any public place, you can look around and tell which guys get laid regularly and which don't. On the other hand, pretty much any girl gets laid as much as she wants.
There aren't any..thewarrior said:What are the signs a man doesn't get laid regularly?
No, because men more often settle for less.Do you think the 20/80 rule applies to women as well?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
cola said:A observation:
I notice a lot of guys don't get results because there asking for others what they don't have in themselves..
For instance: if she is a fitness model.. drives a mercedes and lives in a 2000$ a month condo..
And your in moderate shape.. drive a honda accord and live in your moms house .. chances are.. she's not going to want you..
She's going to want a fit guy with a chizzled physique.. a audi and his own house..
But she's not wrong for wanting that because she has it herself..
Now its a numbers game and you will get thoes type of chicks if you target them enough
OCCASSIONALLY..
But if you want to get girls on a consistent basis you should stick to your own calibur..
Me for example:
I'm a thick guy.. not really fat.. think of a linebacker..
Some chicks think this is sexy.. others think its not.. they want thin in shape guys..
Brad pitt in fight club for example..(man that guys abs were chizzled in that movie)
But I go for chicks that are kind of thick.. not fat nor skinny sort of in the middle..
Think kelly clarkson for example..
But this is ok because I like big bootys and d cup tits..
I will go for girls who are 9s and 10s and get them occassionally..
But why when I can get 7s frequently?
Think of this ratio..
I rate my self a 7.5..
1 out of every 15 hb 10s may give me play..
1 out every 5 hb 7s will give me play..
Why waste my time on the 10s when I can get quadruple the results on the 7s..
Hope this puts pickup in perspective for a lot of you
Peace..
-chris
All women want this. Without it, you can still attract models, but it can be harder - depending on how you play things.cola said:She's going to want a fit guy with a chizzled physique.. a audi and his own house..
It's always a numbers game. The more women you approach, the more numbers you will get. If you can approach women, you're ahead of 90% of the men out there. If you can approach them during the daytime in a casual setting, you're ahead of 99% of men.Now its a numbers game
It's best not to deliberately limit yourself. Think you've got less of a chance with a woman, and you'll start acting that way.I will go for girls who are 9s and 10s and get them occassionally..
But why when I can get 7s frequently?
Why waste my time on the 10s when I can get quadruple the results on the 7s..
Hope this puts pickup in perspective for a lot of you
Peace..
-chris
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Women don't know what they want... if you're listening to women talk about men and actually taking it as fact, then you're being misinformed. The man that SHOWS the woman what she wants is the man that women want. This isn't about looks as much as it is taking what is rightfully yours. The MEN will get laid more than any pretty boy Brad Pitt lookalike. Most males are fucking pussies, especially the good looking ones.cola said:You guys don't get what I'm saying..
Your convinced that women are these little magical creatures who can see your aura and if your confident they just get wet for you..
Have you ever sat in a room with 5 to 6 women and heard them talk about men?
Well it sounds almost exactly the same as it would if you were in a room with 5 to 6 men..
Women are into looks just as much and possibly more than men are.
If you want to talk to all women fine.. but I'm not going to waste my time talking to women who aren't interested and if the woman is more successful .. better looking than you chances are.. she's ..not..going..to..be..interested...!!
That is such a good message, it would be nice if more men decided to do this instead of finding ways to "trick" the girl into liking you. What if you made her wet just by being yourself, wouldn't that be cool!If you want sexy bvtches earn them
Thats the ultimate goal isn't it.What if you made her wet just by being yourself, wouldn't that be cool!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.