"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I Wish I Started Earlier

GoodOne123

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Recently I went out. This was a club that caters more to college students.

I recently turned 24 so I was a bit older than lots of the girls there. But I do look younger, like 20-21.

I had a good time.

One girl started undressing me in the middle of the club, and feeling me up.

A second one I met I got a number from. We kissed.

I texted her the day after. She was a bit short with the answers. But she laughed when I said I was 24, and to my surprise said she was 18. She looked older.

I feel like she meant I was too old for her. Which i don't care that much.

But I care that while I was younger in college, when chances for getting laid were higher, I was a shy guy. I did not take advantage of learning game, and going out with the intention to get laid and improve my game.

I missed out on so many chances I feel, and even though I'm still quite young, I might get rejected for my age by younger girls. The problem is most girls going to clubs are the younger ones.

It sucks that I have this regret in my mind as I am going through developing myself.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You're making me feel old at 23! It's a shame to look back and think I've been on this site for a couple years and not making the most of it, but that's not the right mindset to have. What if you didn't find this website and ended up being that creepy late 20's guy at the clubs. Continuous learning is better than stagnant growth, keep it up
 
Billtx49

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GoodOne123 said:
One girl started undressing me in the middle of the club, and feeling me up.
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Sounds like sexual harassment there, You could play the b|tch role and take her to court… LOL
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jaymbrs

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You're ridiculous dude. You're in your prime right now. And if you look younger than you actually are, you'll be in your prime for a long time. So stop whining. Some men start balding in their mid twenties.
 
Mr Wright

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I started this stuff pretty young and half of me wishes I didn't find it until I was maybe 21ish. You need sometime to just be young and not get too analytical about things. But not too old that your thoughts and mindsets are heavily ingrained. I think I made some pretty poor choices based on this sort of community and now being 25 I've sorted myself out and I'm a pretty chill guy. You're still young and the best is yet to come for sure, just make sure you make the right moves now so when you hit your early 30s everything is in place.
 
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