"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bonafide

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I need help approaching...im supposed to have high testosterone but when it comes to approaching females I suck wtf
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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sorry this topic just made me laugh. i thought you were feeling around down there and actually felt an empty sac :). but agreed approaching suck. this is why we are at this site haha
 

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how do u know u have high testosterone?
 

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how do u know u have high testosterone?
 

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You don't "need" help. You don't need anything. The only thing you need to do is go out there and approach women.

Why are you affraid?

What is the feeling you get when you see a woman you want to approach?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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measure (in millimeters) length of your index finger. divide that by the length of your ring finger. Measure from the proximal crease, the line closest to your palm. Take the average of right and left hand.
There you have your testosterone level - the average is between .96 and .98 - if its LESS then consider yourself blessed.
 

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Man Wtf Ive Had It!!! I Dont Know Wtf Is Wrong With Me Lol... I Never Got Rejected But Every Girl I Eva Had Rlly Came Onto Me...except like in 6th grade... i guess it was easier
 

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Just approach them like they're people, not a bunch of godesses you bow down and worship.
 

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yea me 2 in 6th and 7th grade i was a pimp

and i havent touched a girl since lol
 

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DJVladdy said:
measure (in millimeters) length of your index finger. divide that by the length of your ring finger. Measure from the proximal crease, the line closest to your palm. Take the average of right and left hand.
There you have your testosterone level - the average is between .96 and .98 - if its LESS then consider yourself blessed.
Yeah i heard about this before. There's a massive difference between mine and I was good at sports.

Not sure I'd say somebody is blessed to have high testostrone levels. I find it hard to relax and maybe that has something to do with it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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slaog said:
Yeah i heard about this before. There's a massive difference between mine and I was good at sports.

Not sure I'd say somebody is blessed to have high testostrone levels. I find it hard to relax and maybe that has something to do with it.


same here kind of
 

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Your fourth digit finger is affected by testosterone in the womb.

Women and gay men (yes, research backs this up) tend to have longer index fingers than their fourth digit fingers.

Look up "2D 4D ratio" and you will find the full research.

And if telling yourself you have high testosterone makes you feel confident great, but a blood test is the only way to tell your current test. levels.
 
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