"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I really have no balls

Bonafide

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I need help approaching...im supposed to have high testosterone but when it comes to approaching females I suck wtf
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sorry this topic just made me laugh. i thought you were feeling around down there and actually felt an empty sac :). but agreed approaching suck. this is why we are at this site haha
 

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how do u know u have high testosterone?
 

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how do u know u have high testosterone?
 

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You don't "need" help. You don't need anything. The only thing you need to do is go out there and approach women.

Why are you affraid?

What is the feeling you get when you see a woman you want to approach?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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measure (in millimeters) length of your index finger. divide that by the length of your ring finger. Measure from the proximal crease, the line closest to your palm. Take the average of right and left hand.
There you have your testosterone level - the average is between .96 and .98 - if its LESS then consider yourself blessed.
 

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Man Wtf Ive Had It!!! I Dont Know Wtf Is Wrong With Me Lol... I Never Got Rejected But Every Girl I Eva Had Rlly Came Onto Me...except like in 6th grade... i guess it was easier
 

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Just approach them like they're people, not a bunch of godesses you bow down and worship.
 

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yea me 2 in 6th and 7th grade i was a pimp

and i havent touched a girl since lol
 

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DJVladdy said:
measure (in millimeters) length of your index finger. divide that by the length of your ring finger. Measure from the proximal crease, the line closest to your palm. Take the average of right and left hand.
There you have your testosterone level - the average is between .96 and .98 - if its LESS then consider yourself blessed.
Yeah i heard about this before. There's a massive difference between mine and I was good at sports.

Not sure I'd say somebody is blessed to have high testostrone levels. I find it hard to relax and maybe that has something to do with it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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slaog said:
Yeah i heard about this before. There's a massive difference between mine and I was good at sports.

Not sure I'd say somebody is blessed to have high testostrone levels. I find it hard to relax and maybe that has something to do with it.


same here kind of
 

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Your fourth digit finger is affected by testosterone in the womb.

Women and gay men (yes, research backs this up) tend to have longer index fingers than their fourth digit fingers.

Look up "2D 4D ratio" and you will find the full research.

And if telling yourself you have high testosterone makes you feel confident great, but a blood test is the only way to tell your current test. levels.
 
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