"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I really have no balls

Bonafide

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I need help approaching...im supposed to have high testosterone but when it comes to approaching females I suck wtf
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sorry this topic just made me laugh. i thought you were feeling around down there and actually felt an empty sac :). but agreed approaching suck. this is why we are at this site haha
 

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how do u know u have high testosterone?
 

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how do u know u have high testosterone?
 

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You don't "need" help. You don't need anything. The only thing you need to do is go out there and approach women.

Why are you affraid?

What is the feeling you get when you see a woman you want to approach?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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measure (in millimeters) length of your index finger. divide that by the length of your ring finger. Measure from the proximal crease, the line closest to your palm. Take the average of right and left hand.
There you have your testosterone level - the average is between .96 and .98 - if its LESS then consider yourself blessed.
 

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Man Wtf Ive Had It!!! I Dont Know Wtf Is Wrong With Me Lol... I Never Got Rejected But Every Girl I Eva Had Rlly Came Onto Me...except like in 6th grade... i guess it was easier
 

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Just approach them like they're people, not a bunch of godesses you bow down and worship.
 

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yea me 2 in 6th and 7th grade i was a pimp

and i havent touched a girl since lol
 

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DJVladdy said:
measure (in millimeters) length of your index finger. divide that by the length of your ring finger. Measure from the proximal crease, the line closest to your palm. Take the average of right and left hand.
There you have your testosterone level - the average is between .96 and .98 - if its LESS then consider yourself blessed.
Yeah i heard about this before. There's a massive difference between mine and I was good at sports.

Not sure I'd say somebody is blessed to have high testostrone levels. I find it hard to relax and maybe that has something to do with it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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slaog said:
Yeah i heard about this before. There's a massive difference between mine and I was good at sports.

Not sure I'd say somebody is blessed to have high testostrone levels. I find it hard to relax and maybe that has something to do with it.


same here kind of
 

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Your fourth digit finger is affected by testosterone in the womb.

Women and gay men (yes, research backs this up) tend to have longer index fingers than their fourth digit fingers.

Look up "2D 4D ratio" and you will find the full research.

And if telling yourself you have high testosterone makes you feel confident great, but a blood test is the only way to tell your current test. levels.
 
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