"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I really have no balls

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I need help approaching...im supposed to have high testosterone but when it comes to approaching females I suck wtf
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sorry this topic just made me laugh. i thought you were feeling around down there and actually felt an empty sac :). but agreed approaching suck. this is why we are at this site haha
 

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how do u know u have high testosterone?
 

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how do u know u have high testosterone?
 

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You don't "need" help. You don't need anything. The only thing you need to do is go out there and approach women.

Why are you affraid?

What is the feeling you get when you see a woman you want to approach?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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measure (in millimeters) length of your index finger. divide that by the length of your ring finger. Measure from the proximal crease, the line closest to your palm. Take the average of right and left hand.
There you have your testosterone level - the average is between .96 and .98 - if its LESS then consider yourself blessed.
 

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Man Wtf Ive Had It!!! I Dont Know Wtf Is Wrong With Me Lol... I Never Got Rejected But Every Girl I Eva Had Rlly Came Onto Me...except like in 6th grade... i guess it was easier
 

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Just approach them like they're people, not a bunch of godesses you bow down and worship.
 

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yea me 2 in 6th and 7th grade i was a pimp

and i havent touched a girl since lol
 

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DJVladdy said:
measure (in millimeters) length of your index finger. divide that by the length of your ring finger. Measure from the proximal crease, the line closest to your palm. Take the average of right and left hand.
There you have your testosterone level - the average is between .96 and .98 - if its LESS then consider yourself blessed.
Yeah i heard about this before. There's a massive difference between mine and I was good at sports.

Not sure I'd say somebody is blessed to have high testostrone levels. I find it hard to relax and maybe that has something to do with it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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slaog said:
Yeah i heard about this before. There's a massive difference between mine and I was good at sports.

Not sure I'd say somebody is blessed to have high testostrone levels. I find it hard to relax and maybe that has something to do with it.


same here kind of
 

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Your fourth digit finger is affected by testosterone in the womb.

Women and gay men (yes, research backs this up) tend to have longer index fingers than their fourth digit fingers.

Look up "2D 4D ratio" and you will find the full research.

And if telling yourself you have high testosterone makes you feel confident great, but a blood test is the only way to tell your current test. levels.
 
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