Bonafide
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I need help approaching...im supposed to have high testosterone but when it comes to approaching females I suck wtf
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I really have no balls
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
. but agreed approaching suck. this is why we are at this site hahaCrazy Asian
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how do u know u have high testosterone?
Crazy Asian
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how do u know u have high testosterone?
SharinganUser
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You don't "need" help. You don't need anything. The only thing you need to do is go out there and approach women.
Why are you affraid?
What is the feeling you get when you see a woman you want to approach?
Why are you affraid?
What is the feeling you get when you see a woman you want to approach?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
measure (in millimeters) length of your index finger. divide that by the length of your ring finger. Measure from the proximal crease, the line closest to your palm. Take the average of right and left hand.
There you have your testosterone level - the average is between .96 and .98 - if its LESS then consider yourself blessed.
There you have your testosterone level - the average is between .96 and .98 - if its LESS then consider yourself blessed.
Bonafide
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Man Wtf Ive Had It!!! I Dont Know Wtf Is Wrong With Me Lol... I Never Got Rejected But Every Girl I Eva Had Rlly Came Onto Me...except like in 6th grade... i guess it was easier
MascaraSnake
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Just approach them like they're people, not a bunch of godesses you bow down and worship.
Yeah i heard about this before. There's a massive difference between mine and I was good at sports.DJVladdy said:
Not sure I'd say somebody is blessed to have high testostrone levels. I find it hard to relax and maybe that has something to do with it.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Bonafide
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slaog said:
same here kind of
Your fourth digit finger is affected by testosterone in the womb.
Women and gay men (yes, research backs this up) tend to have longer index fingers than their fourth digit fingers.
Look up "2D 4D ratio" and you will find the full research.
And if telling yourself you have high testosterone makes you feel confident great, but a blood test is the only way to tell your current test. levels.
Women and gay men (yes, research backs this up) tend to have longer index fingers than their fourth digit fingers.
Look up "2D 4D ratio" and you will find the full research.
And if telling yourself you have high testosterone makes you feel confident great, but a blood test is the only way to tell your current test. levels.