"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I really have no balls

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I need help approaching...im supposed to have high testosterone but when it comes to approaching females I suck wtf
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sorry this topic just made me laugh. i thought you were feeling around down there and actually felt an empty sac :). but agreed approaching suck. this is why we are at this site haha
 

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how do u know u have high testosterone?
 

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how do u know u have high testosterone?
 

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You don't "need" help. You don't need anything. The only thing you need to do is go out there and approach women.

Why are you affraid?

What is the feeling you get when you see a woman you want to approach?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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measure (in millimeters) length of your index finger. divide that by the length of your ring finger. Measure from the proximal crease, the line closest to your palm. Take the average of right and left hand.
There you have your testosterone level - the average is between .96 and .98 - if its LESS then consider yourself blessed.
 

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Man Wtf Ive Had It!!! I Dont Know Wtf Is Wrong With Me Lol... I Never Got Rejected But Every Girl I Eva Had Rlly Came Onto Me...except like in 6th grade... i guess it was easier
 

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Just approach them like they're people, not a bunch of godesses you bow down and worship.
 

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yea me 2 in 6th and 7th grade i was a pimp

and i havent touched a girl since lol
 

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DJVladdy said:
measure (in millimeters) length of your index finger. divide that by the length of your ring finger. Measure from the proximal crease, the line closest to your palm. Take the average of right and left hand.
There you have your testosterone level - the average is between .96 and .98 - if its LESS then consider yourself blessed.
Yeah i heard about this before. There's a massive difference between mine and I was good at sports.

Not sure I'd say somebody is blessed to have high testostrone levels. I find it hard to relax and maybe that has something to do with it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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slaog said:
Yeah i heard about this before. There's a massive difference between mine and I was good at sports.

Not sure I'd say somebody is blessed to have high testostrone levels. I find it hard to relax and maybe that has something to do with it.


same here kind of
 

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Your fourth digit finger is affected by testosterone in the womb.

Women and gay men (yes, research backs this up) tend to have longer index fingers than their fourth digit fingers.

Look up "2D 4D ratio" and you will find the full research.

And if telling yourself you have high testosterone makes you feel confident great, but a blood test is the only way to tell your current test. levels.
 
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