Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
i wouldve been able to control it, but her website...Capt.Jack Sparrow said:My wife (no wanking to her!):
http://i10.photobucket.com/albums/a142/XSinaiBeachX/1289396323_l.gif
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Cod3r said:I've hooked up with females and gotten attention from females I'd consider HB8.5's, 9's on occassion, and I have the belief no one jumps more than 1 point up higher than you already are, so hence I'd rate myself about a 7.5/8.0
Me --> yesterday
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Got 9 on hotornot (i don't give that site validity)
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Some old ones...
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Me and My ex-gf
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I love my looks and basically I feel i'm above average, I've had hot girls to validate that... but what does it matter in the long run ?? Looks fade easily, glad I found a girl that we got more than just looks and physical attraction... Lata bro's
-Cod3r
MAVER1CK said:HIlarious.
You actually consider yourself "good looking"?
Enter my realm, FOOL.
http://photos.imageevent.com/neal/junk/websize/meparty4.jpg
http://photos.imageevent.com/neal/junk/websize/meglasses1.jpg
http://photos.imageevent.com/neal/junk/websize/meparty1.jpg
http://photos.imageevent.com/neal/junk/websize/imsohot1.jpg
now please. sit down
PS: cod3r. I like your style
Phoenix_of_the_ashes said:You look like Vanilla Ice mixed with David Beckham.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
thanks!doctoroxygen said:CJS your hair is INSANE and AWESOME. Good work on that.
Capt.Jack Sparrow said:Nah theres a difference in the style between a greaser and a rockabilly but we listen to the same music and everything
Anymore questions?
Anyone?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Charm&Style said:If you were have sex with other greaser boy/girl. If lube finish, can you rub each other hair ( i dont know about pubic ) and use that as lube??
tanx.
nooooo d!ck you can't use that as lubeCharm&Style said:If you were have sex with other greaser boy/girl. If lube finish, can you rub each other hair ( i dont know about pubic ) and use that as lube??
tanx.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.