You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
i wouldve been able to control it, but her website...Capt.Jack Sparrow said:My wife (no wanking to her!):
http://i10.photobucket.com/albums/a142/XSinaiBeachX/1289396323_l.gif
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Cod3r said:I've hooked up with females and gotten attention from females I'd consider HB8.5's, 9's on occassion, and I have the belief no one jumps more than 1 point up higher than you already are, so hence I'd rate myself about a 7.5/8.0
Me --> yesterday
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Got 9 on hotornot (i don't give that site validity)
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Some old ones...
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Me and My ex-gf
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I love my looks and basically I feel i'm above average, I've had hot girls to validate that... but what does it matter in the long run ?? Looks fade easily, glad I found a girl that we got more than just looks and physical attraction... Lata bro's
-Cod3r
MAVER1CK said:HIlarious.
You actually consider yourself "good looking"?
Enter my realm, FOOL.
http://photos.imageevent.com/neal/junk/websize/meparty4.jpg
http://photos.imageevent.com/neal/junk/websize/meglasses1.jpg
http://photos.imageevent.com/neal/junk/websize/meparty1.jpg
http://photos.imageevent.com/neal/junk/websize/imsohot1.jpg
now please. sit down
PS: cod3r. I like your style
Phoenix_of_the_ashes said:You look like Vanilla Ice mixed with David Beckham.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
thanks!doctoroxygen said:CJS your hair is INSANE and AWESOME. Good work on that.
Capt.Jack Sparrow said:Nah theres a difference in the style between a greaser and a rockabilly but we listen to the same music and everything
Anymore questions?
Anyone?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Charm&Style said:If you were have sex with other greaser boy/girl. If lube finish, can you rub each other hair ( i dont know about pubic ) and use that as lube??
tanx.
nooooo d!ck you can't use that as lubeCharm&Style said:If you were have sex with other greaser boy/girl. If lube finish, can you rub each other hair ( i dont know about pubic ) and use that as lube??
tanx.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.