“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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i put this to you: you are not as good looking as you think

lordson

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rite, i'm sick of hearing guys say, i'm good looking this, people call me good-looking that

based on pure speculation, i reckon 50% of the guys hear are sub-par otherwise they wouldn't be here

i want to see pictures!

so all those who think they've got it

please post pictures, or links here.


me:

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=GZRLHQN&key=ENL

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=GZRLHQS&key=WUP

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=ERSQRLN&key=BBE



please no flaming about hotornot, don't know how to post pictures on these forums


my scale:
10 - very HOT
9 - hot
8 - very attractive
7 - pretty/attractive
6 - average/meh
<5 ugly, fugly, butgly
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hot or Not is useless, the girls are rating the guys more on the personality that they are portraying in the photos, not on their actual physical appearance.
The same guy can put on a photo of himself dressed in more conservative or bleak types of clothing and be scored a 4, then put on another photo that shows his muscles without a shirt on and be scored an 8.
The girls are rating the personality portrayed rather than his actual looks.:cool:
 

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lordson said:
based on pure speculation, i reckon 50% of the guys hear [sic] are sub-par
I agree entirely.

Furthermore, I propose that exactly 50% of guys here are above par.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i think im like a 6.5...
 
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JLW

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oh, and I give myself a 6.75-7.25 depending on the day.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hotornot is the worst measure of looks. People don't always rate solely on good looks, guys will rate other guys 1s just for the hell of it, tons of people just keep hitting one score over and over to browse thru the pictures....etc etc. It's bs.
 

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I'm even better looking than I think I am.





Most people in this thread seem quite hot, in my not gay opinion.
 
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What's the point of this? To slash egos? Who cares if someone wants to believe they're better looking than they are. It's their right to do so. I mean what's the alternative? "gee I'm not good enough guess I don't get to feel attractive "
 

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lordson said:
rite, i'm sick of hearing guys say, i'm good looking this, people call me good-looking that

based on pure speculation, i reckon 50% of the guys hear are sub-par otherwise they wouldn't be here

i want to see pictures!

so all those who think they've got it

please post pictures, or links here.


me:

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=GZRLHQN&key=ENL

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=GZRLHQS&key=WUP

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=ERSQRLN&key=BBE



please no flaming about hotornot, don't know how to post pictures on these forums


my scale:
10 - very HOT
9 - hot
8 - very attractive
7 - pretty/attractive
6 - average/meh
<5 ugly, fugly, butgly
You.... my good sir, are a fool.

There are tons of reasons why guys would be on this site, if you're here only to obsess over women you're here for the wrong reasons! So stop with all your gay little predictions and crap. "I bet 50% of you blah blah blah..." Tell me what mathematical process you used to get to that conclusion :rolleyes: . Fyi, I fluctuate between 8.5-9.0 on that site.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PlasticSurgeon said:
Click on my myspace for my pictures...

I'm hands down, the best looking guy of my race. I don't even look Indian.
I'm glad you hold your people to such high standards, b/c basically you said:

"compared to a white guy I aint sh*t but I'm hotter than those Indians, and that's only because I don't look Indian."

Give yourself a pat on the back buddy. :)
 

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Good job diversifying, I'm the same way, but keep in mind if you're excluding your own, you're not diversifying.
Btw, where in LI are you? I'm in Stony Brook U.
 

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Nighthawk said:
I'm even better looking than I think I am.
Hey, you know that PM I sent you asking how to be "sexy"? Well I think I get it now. I was at the bookstore this morning looking at some magazines, and Scarlett Johannson is on the cover of some magazine as "sexiest woman alive." I look at her, then at some other fine chick on another cover, like FHM or something. And you know, Scarlett doesn't have the best body, she's a little "thick" but the way she poses just oozes with sexuality. Even though the other chick has a nicer body, more toned, Scarlett turns me on more, because her stance just plain screams SEX!

So, I get it now...sexy isn't flexing or being big and toned, it's the way you carry yourself...and being confident enough to have a bold sense of style, like you do.

And you know, from your pictures, I think I'm similar to you in that I'm a pretty thin guy. What I think attracts girls is my face/jaw, eyes, and sense of style (though my style needs work). You're not big and muscular, yet you say girls think you're sexy. You do have very "manly" facial features though...and the way you stand is just "sexy." I totally get your drift now...

I won't post my pictures because I don't want people knowing I visit this forum (as I've posted about my self-esteem/confidence issues a lot). I don't really care for ratings since hot girls come onto on me daily, I have all the proof I need. Besides, this guy is right...we all have the right to believe we're super good-looking...in fact, my low self-esteem as I've realized is my biggest obstacle.

Yankee.Hotel.Foxtrot said:
What's the point of this? To slash egos? Who cares if someone wants to believe they're better looking than they are. It's their right to do so. I mean what's the alternative? "gee I'm not good enough guess I don't get to feel attractive "
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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