I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
i wouldve been able to control it, but her website...Capt.Jack Sparrow said:My wife (no wanking to her!):
http://i10.photobucket.com/albums/a142/XSinaiBeachX/1289396323_l.gif
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Cod3r said:I've hooked up with females and gotten attention from females I'd consider HB8.5's, 9's on occassion, and I have the belief no one jumps more than 1 point up higher than you already are, so hence I'd rate myself about a 7.5/8.0
Me --> yesterday
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Got 9 on hotornot (i don't give that site validity)
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Some old ones...
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Me and My ex-gf
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I love my looks and basically I feel i'm above average, I've had hot girls to validate that... but what does it matter in the long run ?? Looks fade easily, glad I found a girl that we got more than just looks and physical attraction... Lata bro's
-Cod3r
MAVER1CK said:HIlarious.
You actually consider yourself "good looking"?
Enter my realm, FOOL.
http://photos.imageevent.com/neal/junk/websize/meparty4.jpg
http://photos.imageevent.com/neal/junk/websize/meglasses1.jpg
http://photos.imageevent.com/neal/junk/websize/meparty1.jpg
http://photos.imageevent.com/neal/junk/websize/imsohot1.jpg
now please. sit down
PS: cod3r. I like your style
Phoenix_of_the_ashes said:You look like Vanilla Ice mixed with David Beckham.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
thanks!doctoroxygen said:CJS your hair is INSANE and AWESOME. Good work on that.
Capt.Jack Sparrow said:Nah theres a difference in the style between a greaser and a rockabilly but we listen to the same music and everything
Anymore questions?
Anyone?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Charm&Style said:If you were have sex with other greaser boy/girl. If lube finish, can you rub each other hair ( i dont know about pubic ) and use that as lube??
tanx.
nooooo d!ck you can't use that as lubeCharm&Style said:If you were have sex with other greaser boy/girl. If lube finish, can you rub each other hair ( i dont know about pubic ) and use that as lube??
tanx.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.