Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
i wouldve been able to control it, but her website...Capt.Jack Sparrow said:My wife (no wanking to her!):
http://i10.photobucket.com/albums/a142/XSinaiBeachX/1289396323_l.gif
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Cod3r said:I've hooked up with females and gotten attention from females I'd consider HB8.5's, 9's on occassion, and I have the belief no one jumps more than 1 point up higher than you already are, so hence I'd rate myself about a 7.5/8.0
Me --> yesterday
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Got 9 on hotornot (i don't give that site validity)
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Some old ones...
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Me and My ex-gf
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I love my looks and basically I feel i'm above average, I've had hot girls to validate that... but what does it matter in the long run ?? Looks fade easily, glad I found a girl that we got more than just looks and physical attraction... Lata bro's
-Cod3r
MAVER1CK said:HIlarious.
You actually consider yourself "good looking"?
Enter my realm, FOOL.
http://photos.imageevent.com/neal/junk/websize/meparty4.jpg
http://photos.imageevent.com/neal/junk/websize/meglasses1.jpg
http://photos.imageevent.com/neal/junk/websize/meparty1.jpg
http://photos.imageevent.com/neal/junk/websize/imsohot1.jpg
now please. sit down
PS: cod3r. I like your style
Phoenix_of_the_ashes said:You look like Vanilla Ice mixed with David Beckham.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
thanks!doctoroxygen said:CJS your hair is INSANE and AWESOME. Good work on that.
Capt.Jack Sparrow said:Nah theres a difference in the style between a greaser and a rockabilly but we listen to the same music and everything
Anymore questions?
Anyone?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Charm&Style said:If you were have sex with other greaser boy/girl. If lube finish, can you rub each other hair ( i dont know about pubic ) and use that as lube??
tanx.
nooooo d!ck you can't use that as lubeCharm&Style said:If you were have sex with other greaser boy/girl. If lube finish, can you rub each other hair ( i dont know about pubic ) and use that as lube??
tanx.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.