So, quote the person you are talking to which is 17shots. Not so obvious to you dumbass.Thank you, Captain Obvious.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
So, quote the person you are talking to which is 17shots. Not so obvious to you dumbass.Thank you, Captain Obvious.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I thought about that too.LOL, based on his posts, he seems ok with having platonic friendzone conversations but the thought of pursuing her sexually is what frightens him.
If so, it's likely due to sexual inexperience.I thought about that too.
Who cares what you say or think. You clearly never made it past the 2nd grade.It is not my fault that you somehow made that post about you, when I didn't even acknowledge, quote or address a very particular comment you made until 5 posts later.
What exactly made you think I was talking to you in post #21, most especially if, as you say, you never said anything along the lines of what I was addressing in that post?
You did not exist to me before post #26.
No one's insulting you. You're getting objective feedback on your intelligence level. or lack thereof.Neither has your insults.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yep. Nervous anxiety. Etc. Thats why he wanna marry her. His manhood is easily down over 50% with that flaw.If so, it's likely due to sexual inexperience.
I appreciate that criticism. I crush goals but had my guards up not LIVING.I've criticized a bunch of guys on here for being too cynical after a series of burned out relationships. But dave appears to be the opposite. He's never been in a relationship so he idealizes girls as either perfect or ugly, 10 or 0. He doesn't have a base of experience to draw from and he's become increasingly frightened as time passes. It's time for him to get that first one under his belt.
He always gets it so yesDid bigdave17 get and apply the guidance he needed or is that never the point of these?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I've had experience with women who weren't in my league. It really doesn't help me at all. They've all been crazy over meWe’ve all been encouraging Dave to work his way up, he wants perfect right now. He’s a lost guy.
It's not like I'm socially awkward or unprepared to handle myself with a beautiful woman.
Hmmm...I just dunno wtf to say to get her interested in me. I feel like I'm annoying her
I'm prepared to handle myself in any kind of real/natural opportunityHmmm...
Then cold approach someone who isn't wearing headphones?I'm prepared to handle myself in any kind of real/natural opportunity
cold approaching a random stranger who has headphones on at a gym is incredibly awkward
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Is she giving your eye contact or IOIs? Why do you feel like you are annoying her -- hot women have b1tch shields and do sh1t tests. You have to expect to feel that way because she probably gets hit on all the time. If she was an ugly girl then you'd feel welcome, right? The girls you don't want are nice to you. You have to apply game with her. You have skills to game right?I saw this very hot Korean chick at my gym with thick ass and legs for days and days today, good god I wanted to jump all over her. I just dunno wtf to say to get her interested in me. I feel like I'm annoying her
I think my advice is generally spot on. The last part of the above sentence is reinforcement that some people just refuse to accept they have flaws and fail to change. You have learned nothing while being on this forum. As proof of that, you have not progressed at all, even with solid advice given to you again and again.my sister said she asked if i got home okay and that I was a great guy
I wonder if she would be down to come visit me in Chicago, maybe she spends a week with me and starts to fall in love?