So, quote the person you are talking to which is 17shots. Not so obvious to you dumbass.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I met that Armenian girl in NY
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I thought about that too.
If so, it's likely due to sexual inexperience.
Who cares what you say or think. You clearly never made it past the 2nd grade.
No one's insulting you. You're getting objective feedback on your intelligence level. or lack thereof.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Yep. Nervous anxiety. Etc. Thats why he wanna marry her. His manhood is easily down over 50% with that flaw.
I've criticized a bunch of guys on here for being too cynical after a series of burned out relationships. But dave appears to be the opposite. He's never been in a relationship so he idealizes girls as either perfect or ugly, 10 or 0. He doesn't have a base of experience to draw from and he's become increasingly frightened as time passes. It's time for him to get that first one under his belt.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I appreciate that criticism. I crush goals but had my guards up not LIVING.
Guys, chill. It won't matter in the end as Dave will not do anything positive, find multiple excuses and continue to whine about why he can't have a "10" Arminian woman who will never age and will have all his imaginary children and still have the body of an 18 year old virgin. Just sit back and watch the melodrama unfold.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
He always gets it so yes
He rarely applies it though.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I've had experience with women who weren't in my league. It really doesn't help me at all. They've all been crazy over me
but again, I had a decent opportunity with somebody in my league on sunday and we got along great. It's not like I'm socially awkward or unprepared to handle myself with a beautiful woman. I just don't ever get any opportunities with anybody decent
I saw this very hot Korean chick at my gym with thick ass and legs for days and days today, good god I wanted to jump all over her. I just dunno wtf to say to get her interested in me. I feel like I'm annoying her
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Hmmm...
I'm prepared to handle myself in any kind of real/natural opportunity
cold approaching a random stranger who has headphones on at a gym is incredibly awkward
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Then cold approach someone who isn't wearing headphones?
Or do it until it stops being awkward? (This takes less than a day honestly)
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Is she giving your eye contact or IOIs? Why do you feel like you are annoying her -- hot women have b1tch shields and do sh1t tests. You have to expect to feel that way because she probably gets hit on all the time. If she was an ugly girl then you'd feel welcome, right? The girls you don't want are nice to you. You have to apply game with her. You have skills to game right?
Try the 3 second rule. Give yourself 3 seconds to talk to a hot girl. Do not think, just say anything....like "Hey, I noticed something about you.....", she may say what? Then think of something.
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I think my advice is generally spot on. The last part of the above sentence is reinforcement that some people just refuse to accept they have flaws and fail to change. You have learned nothing while being on this forum. As proof of that, you have not progressed at all, even with solid advice given to you again and again.
I dont want a woman to fall in love with me. I want a woman to submit to me. The only submit when they respect you and they will never love you if they dont respect you.
I am out on advice for you from here on out. Good luck.
Deuces.