So, quote the person you are talking to which is 17shots. Not so obvious to you dumbass.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I met that Armenian girl in NY
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I thought about that too.
If so, it's likely due to sexual inexperience.
Who cares what you say or think. You clearly never made it past the 2nd grade.
No one's insulting you. You're getting objective feedback on your intelligence level. or lack thereof.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Yep. Nervous anxiety. Etc. Thats why he wanna marry her. His manhood is easily down over 50% with that flaw.
I've criticized a bunch of guys on here for being too cynical after a series of burned out relationships. But dave appears to be the opposite. He's never been in a relationship so he idealizes girls as either perfect or ugly, 10 or 0. He doesn't have a base of experience to draw from and he's become increasingly frightened as time passes. It's time for him to get that first one under his belt.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I appreciate that criticism. I crush goals but had my guards up not LIVING.
Guys, chill. It won't matter in the end as Dave will not do anything positive, find multiple excuses and continue to whine about why he can't have a "10" Arminian woman who will never age and will have all his imaginary children and still have the body of an 18 year old virgin. Just sit back and watch the melodrama unfold.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
He always gets it so yes
He rarely applies it though.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I've had experience with women who weren't in my league. It really doesn't help me at all. They've all been crazy over me
but again, I had a decent opportunity with somebody in my league on sunday and we got along great. It's not like I'm socially awkward or unprepared to handle myself with a beautiful woman. I just don't ever get any opportunities with anybody decent
I saw this very hot Korean chick at my gym with thick ass and legs for days and days today, good god I wanted to jump all over her. I just dunno wtf to say to get her interested in me. I feel like I'm annoying her
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Hmmm...
I'm prepared to handle myself in any kind of real/natural opportunity
cold approaching a random stranger who has headphones on at a gym is incredibly awkward
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Then cold approach someone who isn't wearing headphones?
Or do it until it stops being awkward? (This takes less than a day honestly)
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Is she giving your eye contact or IOIs? Why do you feel like you are annoying her -- hot women have b1tch shields and do sh1t tests. You have to expect to feel that way because she probably gets hit on all the time. If she was an ugly girl then you'd feel welcome, right? The girls you don't want are nice to you. You have to apply game with her. You have skills to game right?
Try the 3 second rule. Give yourself 3 seconds to talk to a hot girl. Do not think, just say anything....like "Hey, I noticed something about you.....", she may say what? Then think of something.
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I think my advice is generally spot on. The last part of the above sentence is reinforcement that some people just refuse to accept they have flaws and fail to change. You have learned nothing while being on this forum. As proof of that, you have not progressed at all, even with solid advice given to you again and again.
I dont want a woman to fall in love with me. I want a woman to submit to me. The only submit when they respect you and they will never love you if they dont respect you.
I am out on advice for you from here on out. Good luck.
Deuces.